will you beg him to stay?

@edward13 (130)
Philippines
March 14, 2007 12:12am CST
will u still beg ur bf to stay knowing that he still loves his ex, what if u are pregnant and he is the father? his ex gf is living in the other country for three years yet.....but u are living together for more than one year...!!!
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@anup12 (4180)
• India
14 Mar 07
No I will not.If he wants to go let him go.
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• Philippines
14 Mar 07
Perfectly stated :)
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• Philippines
14 Mar 07
no, i wouldn't. i still have my self love to go too down on that level. inspite the fact that i'll be a single parent on that event, i'd still not beg him to stay. i am doing myself a favor because if i beg him, i am only fooling myself and that maybe the guy would just stay because of pity and that's not the way relationships should go. if he really loves his ex, then go home with the ex and i'm going to center mylife raising my baby. it may sound too much, but i think that it's not right to beg someone especially when you know for a fact that the person doen't love you back.
@LindaLou (483)
• Canada
14 Mar 07
Never beg. It's degrading and dehumanizing. If he is not man enough to live up to the responsibilities of his child, then he is not a man worth having in your life. You would be better of without a man like that. Let his ex have him back. Then pity her.
@earth2jacq (1503)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
No I wouldn't beg him to stay. But what I will beg of him is the monetary support for the child. I personally don't like to make people stay in a relationship if they no longer want to be there. Making them stay will just cause more pain as they might be physically be with you but their hearts are with someone else's. It is not good to be clingy even if you do it for the child you are carrying....if he stays with me it must be his choice not mine as I don't want to be blamed one day that I deprived him of his happiness and true love. Letting go hurts but it hurts more to see him everyday inlove with someone else.
@sherinek (3323)
• United States
14 Mar 07
If I knew that he still loves his ex, i will never get pregnant with him in the first place. But if i got to know it later, i will surely be very upset. Now that I am pregnant, and he is the father, i will try to show him reason. But if I feel that he does not love me, even though my kid will lose his father, I will not beg him to stay. I will somehow bring up my kid alone and I will never ever go to him. This is what I will do.
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• Pakistan
14 Mar 07
No never beg a man. That wont help in any case. If he is interested he will stay otherwise you cant make a relationship by begging infront of anyone. He wont care. If he doesnt care about you, about baby than its better to let him go. He will be back in any case if he belongs to you. But you can make him understand the love you have for him. may be this works. Be expressive.
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
that guy should go to hell. what is he doing fooling around with the girl if he has still hung ups? and get the girl pregnant?! he must be kidding! the girl is in a pitiful situation. if i were on the situation, i may beg for him to stay if im not that strong, but if im willed to let go a good-for-nothing guy, well dump him off. id put in my head. i loved. really loved. if the person don't love me back , it may be painful, but who is he that Id live up to this futile hope. and msut learn and move on from it. that's it.
@Abbyey (760)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
That's hard. I understand how u feel. However you have to confront him of the situation. Does he know that ur pregnant? if he does well i believe he has to be responsible... partly if he loves his ex, he shouldn't be with you... he should have learned to wait for his girlfriend to come back... for you i believe you dont need to beg... he will feel that he's dominant... he even might look down on you... I know its hard if he leaves but if you BEG i think it will have a worst impact... Please wait for other responses... maybe they have a better suggestiongs... i just like to help... thanks