if you wanna end up with the right one..

I think if someone is right for you, then they will be ready for you when you are also ready. If he/she is already taken, even if you two would get along well, chances are that it will cause you problems because that person is already in a relationship with someone else. If you have to steal him/her, it already proves that that person is not faithful and would probably do the same thing when they are in a relationship with you. Being in a healthy relationship bring out good qualities about that person, making them seem like "the best" because they are happy etc... but perhaps when they are single, they probably are not as perfect as that ;)

Maybe you are right in doing something to get the right person for you. But I don't agree in the stealing part. I still believe that if someone is meant for you, he will come to you in whatever circumstance, wherever, whenever. Stealing someone else's partner is selfishness. I don't mind being single for the rest of my life if I didn't get the right person in the most natural way. This being said, I guess I'll be single forever. LOL.