Which is more important,Love or Hug?
By sweetpunch
@sweetpunch (915)
Pakistan
March 15, 2007 7:36am CST
By that I mean,how important it is to show someone how much you love him/her?And whether it is necessary to do that or we just have to love someone withoput letting him know about it.
It includes all relationships either parents,children,husband/wifeor any other...
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19 responses
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
17 Apr 08
Yeah that would be showing off and you wiull always be looking towards a gathering where you can impress others while when two would be lonely one would feel that what is the use of showing my love now when no one is looking at us.
@jeaniezheng (229)
• China
18 Apr 08
Hi sweetpunch, What you mean is if we should speak our love out?
I will say yes of course.
If you love your bf,your parents,children etc,you should speak aloud that you love them.Love can not be as a secret.We should express our true feelings.If not why they know that you really love them.
But in action we should also show our love,that is in coordition with our words.
What do you think so?
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
5 May 08
:)hmm!your girl friend must be a very happy lady since many of the girls do like to be loved the way you are saying.
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
19 Apr 08
my thoughts are closer to those of yours.yes thats what i wanted to ask if its necessary to show someone that you love him or just to love him silently is enough.
@jeaniezheng (229)
• China
21 Apr 08
ok.Yes we should express our love to our loved one.For action is not enough to express the love concretely.Let us speak out love loudly.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
12 May 08
i think of course, the feeling of love is important. when you love a person.. your actions will show your feelings, and you cannot hide that.. it is basically the same as being angry - when you are angry you tend to not say anything or- say everything even if it hurts people. in love, when you love a person, it is impossible not to show this by means of affection and caring.
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
16 May 08
Its some time difficult for some people to actually show their love and make other person believe that they really love him even though they do so more than he does.So this discussion was to know how much is it important to do so.
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
16 May 08
Fake one?thats no good, thats why its quite difficult fo normal people to trust anyne so easiy because its quite differentr to distinguish betrween a fake lover and an honest one.
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
5 May 08
a hug without love could do something but just for a little span of time ,a hug with love will leave its impression forever.
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
15 May 08
Thanks for agreeing but I do think that love alone is not enough since there are very few people who can hear or see with their heart normally people do need a confirmation of love other person time to time
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
5 May 08
thats right but my question actually was that which one is more important, either it is ok to just love someone without letting him know or without expressing it properly.
@samimkardar (828)
• United States
17 Apr 08
Actually the hug is a way to express ur love with anybody.There are many different ways to express ur love, hug is one of them.
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
17 Apr 08
The stress was not on what is hug but the question was which one do you think is important,just to love or also to express your love through your actions.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
21 Apr 08
Showing our emotions to someone we love, stengthen our relationship with that person. If emotions are not expressed then the other fellow may not know about our real intentions and feelings, so I feel a warm hug and warm gestures are necessary to express our love to all the person, we love.
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
5 May 08
tahts right!i also believe that both are equally important. infact to continue a good relationship it is quite necessary to refresh your good feelings about the other person and to share them as it refreshes his love for you as well.
@goldwin65 (935)
• Malaysia
24 Apr 08
Both are equally important in order to show our love towards someone. It is good to say that "I love you" to someone that we love everyday and at the same time, we may hug each other. I do hug my parents as well as my own children. It is a way to say "I love you" too.
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
5 May 08
thats nice i think one should continue this kind of pracvtice as it refreshes the emotions and increase the feelinmg of care for each other.
@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
17 Apr 08
My husband and I tell each everyday that we love each other. When he leaves for work in the morning, and at night before we go to sleep. He don't hug me so much, I have to hug him first tho. But I think both are important things to do in life. But even if either one of us forget to say it, we still know we love each other.
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
19 Apr 08
thats really good!infact that shpould be the spirit that if sometimes he never expresses his love ,still you know he loves you its your trust and his dedication to you that make you believe in him.may allah srenghtens your believes about him.
@ella1bella (839)
•
29 Apr 08
I think its grea t to let your famiy and friens know that you love them.Hubby and I tell each other we love each other every ay.When the kis ring I tell them I love them,an also to my Mother.
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
5 May 08
itys really good and also its necessary, keep up the good pratice:)have a nice day.
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
5 May 08
:) HOPE YOU GET IT SOON JUST HAVE TRUE FEELINGS FOR HIM IN YOUR HEART AND BE HONEST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP HOPE YOU WILL FIND WHATEVER YOU NEDD SOON.BEST OF LUCK!AND STAy happy:)
@moon317318 (692)
• Pakistan
6 May 08
well really need them to know,,,and a loving and a caring hug will do that
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
10 May 08
Its all about lovuing and then proving it nthrough your actions either it is a hug or something else but it is required to be done to make the other person feel that you do care for him with sincerity and honesty.And thats what explains the pure feeling of love.
@moon317318 (692)
• Pakistan
30 Apr 08
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@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
5 May 08
yes i do thats what i wasa thinking where have you been.what about all your earnings are they wasted?
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
21 Mar 07
Yeah!but I feel sometimes it is important the other person should know what you feel about him so that he does not hurts your feelings in ignorance.
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
17 Apr 08
Ofcuorse it can be felt yet it requires a true heart to feel it. A heart with lots of dirt in it can never justify a true feeling such as love. It is only looking towards the apparant things.
@paresh44_44 (334)
• India
18 Mar 07
actually its very difficult to say what is more important its basically depending upon the situation.
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
21 Mar 07
I do agree with you infact both seems to be important at their own place.
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
17 Apr 08
for me love is more important from hug, love shows it all if you really care for that person that much
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
17 Apr 08
Your are right but there are people who require a little care and they do not feel the depth until you keep telling them thruogh your gesters and actions.I think both are equally important.
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
6 May 08
It really depends because sometimes I hug them to show that I care and love them so much. My boyfriend told me that he felt that I love him so much when I hug him.
