"Friendly Dogs"

United Kingdom
March 16, 2007 3:57pm CST
Has anyone else ever had this problem? Dogs come up to you, not on a lead or anything, and all the owner does is smile and say the dog won't hurt you. Well, I don't care if the dog will hurt me or not, I still don't want it near me, it still should be on a lead. I have recently been wondering how these dog owners would feel if I allowed my children to run off from me and jump up them. Of course, my kids wouldn't do it so why should I accept a dog doing it to me? And what's wrong with people looking after their animals. If they aren't capable of controlling their pets, whether they are friendly or not, they shouldn't have them. Just wanted to know other people's thoughts and experiences on this.
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11 responses
@nannacroc (4049)
16 Mar 07
These owners are completely thoughless. It doesn't matter if their dog is friendly or not, the person it jumps up at may have a fear of dogs or may have had a bad experience with a so called friendly dog. The law is that a dog should be kept on a lead and decent owners stick to the rules.
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• United Kingdom
16 Mar 07
That's true. I think it's very rude of people to assume that everyone's ok with dogs. I don't know if people realise that it's the law to keep their dogs on a lead or if they just think nobody minds.
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@ironstruck (2298)
• Canada
16 Mar 07
I feel exactly like you. I have been attacked by dogs before while out running. It is the fault of irresponsible owners who assume everyone loves dogs.. That is such narrow thinking! I don't mind dogs. I just have a fear of them from to many bad experiences. Especially when they charge at me. I believe in live and let live. There is nothing more harmless than someone out to enjoy an early morning jog. I don't take kindly to being charged by a dog. I'm not bothering him, and I expect the same consideration from the owner and his dog.
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 07
I also have a fear of dogs. My kids don't mind them but there are some dogs which are bigger than my baby and it worries me as my baby is quite happy to be dog-licked! I've also been follwed by loose dogs and made it obvious I didn't want them near me but atill they follow!
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• United States
17 Mar 07
People with "bad" dogs and "bad" children both seem to be in denial about it. When someone tells you his dog won't hurt you, absolutely do not take their word for it. Sure, the owner probably believes his dog is harmless, but often they are wrong. What does it matter why the owner is wrong? Whether he is deluded or lying? Protect yourself from all dogs you do not know.
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@speakeasy (4171)
• United States
16 Mar 07
Personally, I am not afraid of them. I sometimes have to go to people's homes for my job; I sell insurance. Petting their dog and getting along with it helps me get on the owner's "good side". However, I did run into one dog that was so "friendly" he was actually nipping me and he left welts and actually made a hole in my slacks. The owner just told him to stop; which he didn't. I was really glad to leave and I did tell the owner he needed to do something about the dog before someone sued him. Needless to say, I didn't make a sale; but, I also didn't have to go back there.
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 07
Well, that's a different situation. Your job involves going to other peoples housing so petting their dog, in their own home, is fair enough. I have a friend who has a few dogs who will always sniff me if I go round. I don't mind that as I know they are there and I know they are clean and friendly. It's those in the street without a lead I have a problem with.
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@healer (1779)
• India
17 Mar 07
You are right people should not keep pets if they cannot control them. Once my youngest brother got bitten by my neighbors dog and all the medical expenses were done by them only but i warned them not to let that happen next time but what they replied was completely shocking to me, they replied like they are animals they cannot understand what we say so, we cannot help it. I had a big mouth to mouth fight with them but in the end they tied the dog up and after few days it was sold out or i don't know but it was gone. People must not keep pets if they cannot control or look after it properly.
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• United States
17 Mar 07
That is a huge problem! Fear aside, I am extremely allergic to dogs and I hate that all dog owners expect you to pet their "friendly dog". I can't pet dogs, they make me itchy. Dogs should be under complete control at all times when they are out in public whether they are friendly or not.
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@dorypanda (1601)
20 Mar 07
I do think that people who have dogs should look after them properly and keep them on leads (where necessary, there are some places where they're aloud to roam free). When I looked after dogs, if I was walking them anywhere they were ALWAYS on a lead, even though they were friendly and wouldn't have hurt anyone, that's not the point really, I just wanted to make sure they didn't run up to anyone and frighten them or run off into the road and get run over or anything. I did used to let them off the lead in the local field, but only if there was no other living thing there. If people can't look after their pets properly, they shouldn't have them.
• United States
17 Mar 07
Well there seems to be two kinds of dog owners, responsible ones and not. I consider myself a responsible dog owner. I don't let my pet bother other people and I clean up after my pet when we walk. I think some people are what my husband calls oblivions. They are inconsiderate people that are so wrapped up in what they want or are doing they haven't a clue that they are causing problems for the rest of us. If they do this with their pets, they probably do this in other areas of their lives too, we just don't see it.
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• United States
2 Apr 07
i don't mind if they're calm dogs,but the hyper ones that jump and flail and try to lick you i can definetly do without. makes you wonder how their kids act.
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• United Kingdom
3 Apr 07
I agree with you. It's the little "ankle-biters" which are the worst. A friend and I agree that, the less like a wolf a dog looks, the less likely we are to trust it! I also wonder how these people allow their children to behave. I may have mentioned this before but I wonder how the dog owners would feel if I allowed my children to jump up them? I had someone tell me their dogs were friendly again very recently and I wondered if the owners had thought about whether I was friendly. For all they know, I could have been really horrible and wanted to hurt the dog, which of course I wouldn't, but they didn't know that, juist as I didn't know that their dogs wouldn't hurt me. Actually, these were the worst kind of dog owners, they had allowed their dogs to roam free on a path through a public park and the owners sat in a car watching them! I didn't even realise the dogs belonged to them until they came out the car to get the dogs!
@nietske (199)
• Belgium
3 Apr 07
I am sorry you seem to be so negative about dogs, they are wondeful creatures. If i go out with my dog he's not on a lead, but he doesn't jump on people, he doesn't care for other people around him. He's also a very small dog and he does listen to me. And by the way, your children might not jump on people, but children who are screeming their head of and running around like little brats generally annoy me more then a dog coming to greet me. Are people who have children that don't listen not allowed to have them according to you? Same principle as with a dog?
• United Kingdom
3 Apr 07
I think you seem to have misunderstood what I was saying. If a dog doesn't come up to me, that's fine. And yes, I do think that if people can't look after their children properly then they shouldn't have them. The jumping up people thing was just an example. I would no more like children screaming and behaving like brats than I like dogs jumping up me. I wasn't being negative about dogs, I was being negative about the owners of dogs who are allowed to roam free and who claim their dogs are friendly when that makes no difference. I think you have kind of proved my point in a way, you have a dog and think it's ok for you not to keep it on a lead because you believe it will always obey you and won't hurt anyone but you don't like screaming children. So, when I say that people who say their dogs are friendly wouldn't like it if I allowed my children to be annoying in the same way, or a different way, you have proved that's true.
@miamilady (4910)
• United States
14 Apr 07
I agree. People should keep their dogs under control. I have a dog now and have had several in the past. I always try to respect peoples likes and dislikes. Some people are just not comfortable around dogs and dog owners should respect that.
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