Questions about playdates?

@starr4all (2863)
March 16, 2007 4:47pm CST
I'm having one over at my home now for my son. What are some standard rules are there? Like how long should the play date last; what kind of snacks; what are they allowed to do? Those type of questions. I've never had any before so I'm not sure what to do. Any help would be appreciated! Thanks!
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@pinklilly (3443)
• Australia
16 Mar 07
I've never had paly dates for my children usually it is a social thing friends etc... I would expect to have healthy snacks such as fruit for them. Let them play together. Time would be sorted by the parents (You and theirs)I would expect when they would be coming back..... How old are the children?
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@starr4all (2863)
16 Mar 07
My son will be six this weekend. I just didn't know if their were set rules. Since starting kindergarten, he finally has some friends he wants to play with.
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@pinklilly (3443)
• Australia
16 Mar 07
ok my children are 4 & 2 so I've never really had a specific scheduled playdate... I'm sure things will be fine :) This must be exciting for you. Good Luck :)
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• United States
16 Mar 07
I don't think there are really standards to Play Dates- but the time it lasts would probably depend on the age of the children. I'd day probably 1 1/2 to 2 hours is plenty of time, but again it really depends on the age of the children. The snacks would probably also depend on the individual children, but I'd suggest something easy, simple, and healthy. Pretzels and fresh fruit would be a great easy snack for the kids. As far as what the kids are allowed to do, that mostly depends on your comfort level. If you don't want them to make a mess painting, I wouldn't suggest you let them paint- that sort of thing. Only let them do what you are comfortable with! I'm sure most kids would be happy just playing together with their toys, or outside if it's nice enough. Hope I was of some help =)
@starr4all (2863)
17 Mar 07
That's pretty much what I thought. Thanks for the comment!
@pumpkinjam (8540)
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 07
There are no rules as such. Whenever my kids have friends round, I stick to the same rules as I always have. If I am looking after them then they obey my rules, whatever they happen to be. My 7 year old has his friends here for about 2 hours which I think is a good amount of time. Give them fruit for snacks. Check with the other childs mum whether he's allergic to anything. I tell my kids friends parents what I'll have for snacks and I usually make them some dinner too so I just ask if there's anything he can't have. I think the best thing would be to work out between yourself and the other childs parents whatever you think is best.
@crystal8577 (1466)
• United States
16 Mar 07
I have the basic rules: no running, yelling, share & keep your hands to yourself. I think 2 hours is plenty of time for a play date. Snacks: depending on age. Baby carrots, pretzels, grapes, apples, some kind of juice. Most kids can play fine by themselves if you just let them be. They should be able to entertain themselves for the most part.
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