My friend is driving me crazy!
St. Catharines, Ontario
March 17, 2007 10:59pm CST
I have a friend who is driving me crazy with her constantly changing mind... She's "in looove" with someone who doesn't really appreciate her and sees other women. She gets upset and dumps on him to me, then in five seconds she'll be calling him up on the phone to see if he wants to come over. If he declines, she dumps on him again. She can change her mind about him faster than I can type! The other part of this maddening situation is that she wants to meet someone else, so she's on a few dating sites, and calls up the local chat line, and then makes up all kinds of excuses why she can't actually meet anyone she connects with. She sets up a meeting, then bails. Here's a recent example... from last night, actually. She messaged someone from one of the dating sites, they chatted online, he had something to do but would get back to her later that same night. She gave him her phone number and he said he'd call her at 8. Then she phoned her boyfriend, and asked him if he wanted to come over. He was noncommital, said he would call her later. He didn't. Meanwhile, she blew off the online guy in case boyfriend came over. He didn't. And today she started dumping on boyfriend to me because *he* screwed up her plans for last night! Argh! What am I gonna dooo with this girl?
18 Mar 07
Let her do what she wants,she still doesnt know what she wants.If she wants to meet someone else let her do it,one day she's gonna be hurt really bad and than she'll stop changing her mind everytime.Girls lijke your friend has to learn their lessons,learn from their mistakes let her do what she think is ok.
• United States
18 Mar 07
hmmmmmmmm maybe she is in love maybe she is afraid of falling for somebody else and losing the one she loves maybe that is wise, maybe not maybe she is Bipolar or something also, maybe she should chart the changes or something, just to try for stability and consistancy nobody would like being loved for awhile, then dissed totally , then loved, etc. , can you see why that is?