if your girlfriend was raped what will you do

@megaplaza (1438)
Nigeria
March 21, 2007 2:47pm CST
i just logging it and i was searching for topic to satrt in mylot and this crossed my mind. what will be your reaction if you girlfriend, wife or partner was raped. will you blame them or what. i dont wish do have that experience, but if it must happen then, i will accepted her back and treat her good just like i used to before the incidence.
4 responses
@suraj5747 (207)
21 Mar 07
if i truely love her will comfort her in her sorrow and i'll surely marry her if shes just playing games and if shes a fast one will have a ball and chuck her.....
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@Penfencer (297)
• United States
21 Mar 07
I can't see any reason why you wouldn't "accept her back." That makes it sound almost like it was her fault, and in most instances, I simply don't see that as the case. The idea of rape suggests that she was an unwilling participant, so if anything, one should be caring and sympathetic to her, not merely "accepting her back" as if there were something you had to forgive her for.
• United States
21 Mar 07
Here, here!
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• India
21 Mar 07
It could happen to anyone in this worst scenario, but this will be an accident. For me, my girlfriend will be still mine, and i'll give her all supports and care to come out of the truama of such accident.
@Newbie11 (197)
• United States
21 Mar 07
I cannot tell you my exact reaction .But I agree with you that I will accept her and treat her good just like I used to before the incidence.During the rape incidence the victim has no fault.After the rape incidence the victim needs moral support .She must not be left alone.I will never her and always stand by her.