why do we compare?
March 21, 2007 3:39pm CST
Why is it good for parents to compare their children? they compare their children for not being as neat as or as intelligent as his/her sister or brother or class mate. Can any good come from them?
21 Mar 07
to have a better option in hand and in view. though a mere comparison could be detremental to the child's psychology but an intelligent one will let the child think of the other better children and will help him change himself to be like them
1 Apr 07
thats why i used the word intelligent comparison. for example to teach the child how a cleaner child is more adorable, parents will and do give the examples of other children just to make their children immitate the good qualities of others. i think it's not bad at all, if done intelligently coz it instills, in a child, right from start to learn good things from others that may help him for the rest of his life.
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22 Apr 07
compare between two there is a little bit difference between two that why we compare for which one is eg one is good in studies and one is not then we need to compare for its better future so he can also compete with other one who is good one so i think that compare is good for us but we think that when the time goes when we are in child hood we think that they always compare us they alsways disappoint me thsi is human nature if one is good then we compare other one to him