Is there such thing as PERFECT RELATIONSHIP?

Philippines
March 21, 2007 7:23pm CST
I know nobody's perfect it's (+) + (-) = (-) but if we add (-) and (-) shouldn't it result to a (+)? If you are aware of your imperfection and so is your partner, you should work together to come close to perfection. You don't leave the works to your mate, while you sit down relax and be effortless. I guess this is the reason why there are many failed relationships. You are making only one person responsible for everything and put the blame on her/him. When time comes to say goodbye, there's no turning back. No more pointing of hands on who's to blame, that's the time of moving on. Just before that time comes at least reflect on each differences and alter your selfish ego. Learn to give in and learn to accept. Women loves to be noticed, most of the time. No matter what we do we love to be appreciated. We love to hug, we love to praise and we love to do things for the best. Is it similar with men? That I am not sure.... There are times I'd like to stare at walls and ask but what answer will it give me? Is it a call to realization.... I don't wanna judge my actions too soon... I don't want to end up with wrong judgement but what else is there left to do? Is it true for men that if you lack LOVE for your mate, you'd grow cold and lack the interest to show affection?
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kurtbiewald
@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
22 Mar 07
watch this good night sweet angel (-)
ladyrainfx
@ladyrainfx (366)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
wow...I long wished to be called an angel... could you send another angel to do that please...at least to put me to sleep and say goodnight... give hugs and kisses.... say sweet words that my ears are dying to hear.... am i just Thirsty or Hungry or both?
gleznov
@gleznov (391)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I'm not sure about perfect relationships - but nothing in life is "perfect"... To be humorous, I'll point out that (+)+(-) isn't necessarily a (-), and a (-)+(-) is definately not a (-), but (+)x(-) = (-), and (-)x(-)=+... The best relationships are built on two major things: 1) Communication 2) Trust Communication is very important - as soon as you neglect this, you'll notice that resentments and anger can build in each of you, all to be released in a big fight and then made-up after.... If you keep communication strong always, you will have much fewer problems, fewer fights, and be a happier couple. Is it true for men that if you lack LOVE for your mate, you'd grow cold and lack the interest to show affection? Well... yeah - you should definitely love your mate. Who, male or female, can invest unlimited attention and affection into someone they don't love?
ladyrainfx
@ladyrainfx (366)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
You made good humor there... I think you are right...communication gap causes so many failed relationships...what i don't know is that there are people who don't want to talk... when it fact it's good for keeping the relationship alive... I'll bare that in mind, coldness and lack of affection means no LOVE at all... Thanks pal...