Stand up against clash / broke up?

what should i do? - To think about it *headache*
Malaysia
March 21, 2007 11:06pm CST
Hi myLot friends, i keep on thinking about this lately. How you deal with your emotion, feelings, thought, action etc when your relationship was clash or broke up with your girlfriend/boyfriend? Does everything can be normal again? Or do you fight to hold the relationship until the end? Can you share with me...
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@mysthree (61)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
I think if you really loved that person, you have to fight and hold on to what you feel but if you also think that the relationship has no direction, well better think, you might be wasting your time. And as time goes by, when you finally realized that its over and your moving on ... everything can be normal again ....
• Malaysia
22 Mar 07
It's her family my friend, how can we proceed if the family doesn't like me, not me actually, but whoever live too far from where they live...sounds nonsense right, but it's real. No matter what, her family stick with that, i've never got a chance to explain myself to them...i'm losing right now...
• Philippines
24 Jan 08
Are you telling me that your boyfriend cannot defend you on his family????? If that would be the case, that relationship will end up soon. If he really loves you, he will fight for you and he will do something so that you and his family will be put into good condition.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I always fought to hold onto to it to the end. Relationships are hard to come by, hold onto or get started. I have been married for 12 years and my husband and I have had our fair share of ups and downs. I had reltionships before him also and I tried to make them all last, but the guys did not want to continue with it, so i moved on. When my husband and I first got together, he had just gotten out of a divorce. I don't think he was ready to commit to another person right then. He did love me, but it took him a while to get a grip with it and truly believe that I did love him back the same. We met 15 years ago and we got married 3 years after that. We have argued before in our marriage but we always talk about things and it all works itself out. We try to keep our family together because I have a 15 year old daughter also.
• Malaysia
23 Mar 07
Your experience is something that make you learn something right. I never once know how it feels when the relationship is gone and we have start all over again. But now, i do know how it feels, i'm not trying to denying something but keep on my faith and believe that our relationship will succes one day, not tomorrow maybe next week or next month. How do you deal with parents about that my friend, did you put it into consideration when deciding a thing?