boyz dont cry??

India
March 22, 2007 1:57am CST
DO BOYS REALLY CRY?? How do we get to know whats on his mind? Its really very difficult to understand the emotions of men.With women its kind of an obvious thing, as they show clearly with their gestures, what they feel.Men on the other hand, generally dont find crying or any other gesture as an outlet of ther emotions.So How do we really know WHAT ARE THEY REALLY FEELING?? My boyfriend often conplains that i dont understand his feelings and console him but seriously,when try asking him I find that they are merely so small matters that makes him down.When i tell him to forget them,he says I dont understand his emotions. Can anybody explain it to me when do boys really cry?? How do we know it??
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5 responses
• India
23 Mar 07
Dear first of all its really not like boys don't cry but its like they don't show... most of all I believe the only problem is that may be you might be considering your boyfriends problems a bit too small as for they are not really your problems and other times when we ourselves face any problem we see how big they are. And also that no problems are small as the smallest ant can take down an elephant and so it goes for many other things.... So Take Care May GOD Bless YOU
@jogi1980 (19)
• India
24 Nov 07
when they are alone and don't like any friend except one. when they are over reactive in bad manner then it means they are crying
@jogi1980 (19)
• India
24 Nov 07
boys also cry, but they don't show their feeling. when they cry they are alone. they cry from their heart.
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
25 Mar 07
Girl its not basically a fact of boys and girls what it needs to go DEEPER say human to human.If the topic is over boyfriends the first thing You need to know that person well, then only he is elligible for becoming your boyfriend isn't it? But I know it eats a lot of time. Which is precious!! And when you both come to know each other then there is hardly any thing to bother between you and your love. some times even Boys sings the same tune .."no body can understand girls". I say no body gives time to one to understand them. As its a human tendency, every body goes for shorter way(the path not taken). Each and every person tell every thing about themselves to understnad them all it needs is to be quite and listen to them thats it!! Like I have some friends whom I hardly know from about 9-10 months or a year but I can read their minds easily and exactly...but I failed to understand my own boyfriend whom I know for more than 5 years( who was my friend but I hardly cared from him) Now you got the picture do reply tanu!!
@adela56 (183)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
yeah they cry because they hurt.