"The million dollar question .. WHAT IF?" ......

@anjoks (2080)
Philippines
March 22, 2007 2:21am CST
.... i'm picking up the pieces again. I'm starting to move on. I'm getting him out of my head and i don't wanna see him anymore but what is this, life is so unfair! I'm afraid i might see my ex! You see, i'll be going to my mom's native land next wk and he's just living within the area. Oh god, i'm so tensed. If ever i'll see him, totally i'll ignore him at all. BUt what if? The million dollar question.... wooohooo! Why am i feeling so nervous as the day goes by? haaahhhhh! this driving me nuts. ... ... thanked god myLot's here. i'm able to shell out my emotions. (",)
5 responses
@gianena (256)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
Hmmmm... I smell something fishy... hehehe!!! Naaahhhh!!! I have a feeling you still love your ex bf. I just want to ask who dumped who. I know how you feel cause I've been in that situation. In my case, I was the one who was dumped so it means my ex bf didn't love me anymore. Worst, he already found someone new!!! At that time, I was really devastated. I thought I can't go on without him but I was wrong. I know you can get over him. But you have to exert more effort. Correct me if I'm wrong, are you still hoping that one of these days he'll come back to you?!?!?!? Just don't expect too much cause you might get hurt again. Ignoring him is natural especially if the break-up is still fresh. If you really don't want to see him, just try avoiding him. It's not easy to pretend that you're okay even if you're not, right?!?!?!? Anyways, whatever may happen, the important thing is you'll enjoy your stay in your mom's native land. Enjoy with your family and friends. Don't let someone ruin your stay there.;) Enjoy!!! Take care!!!;)
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
U think so? .. i guess i still love him, i dunno. And i dunno what to say.^_^ .. my mind's blank and empty. So many things running in my head right now. BUt i appreciate your advice my friend. I'll try okay? Tc u too. (",)
@gianena (256)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
I really know what you're feeling now. Try to look for diversions instead of thinking about him (too much). I know you can do it... As what Koreans always say: AJA!!! AJA!!! AJA!!! LOL!!! c";)*
• Pakistan
23 Mar 07
Don't worry about future. If an incident will have occur in your future, then nobody can stop it. I think, you have to relax yourself and be easy. Secondly, don't hide your feeling from someone. This is your loss not him/her. Say every thing to him/her before it is to late.
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
I'm injecting everything u said to me my friend. . I'll try okay? Thanks anyway. Take care. (",)
@aissar (414)
• Malaysia
22 Mar 07
hey hey.. Looks like you've still got feelings for your ex. Well, don't bother me for saying it; I just had to because I hate seeing people who ignore their feelings and pretend nothing ever happened and they don't need to remember the past, which is so stupid. See? You're nervous. That means you still care for something which you don't know before and has pushed to the back of your mind. The harder you try to forget it, the easier you'll remember it. So, the harder you try to ignore him, the easier he'll notice you're ignoring him. So just be yourself, there's nothing to it. Lol good luck!
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
Haha! .. as much as i would like to be a hypocrite sometimes. lol .... what can i say?! i guess and i think you are right in every way. I'm just afraid to accept the truth cause it's been so long and still, here i am acting so stupid. . . I just have this mixed emotions thats why. Thanks anyway. I'll keep that in mind. (",)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
Just like what others who responded to you, you can't deny that you are still in love with him. But remember you are moving on right now. don't let your meeting him again spolied your present life. The counter question here is, is he also feeling the same way as you do? What if he has another love interest? Maybe you should compose yourself and treat him as your friend. Not unless the feeling is so intense that he too is still in love with you. If the breaking up is not really very damaging, then maybe love is lovelier the second time around, ha?!
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
Ohhh, "magdilang-anghel po sana kau!". haha!! .. i guess i'm still hoping. I've been thinking a lot these days and i'd come to a conclusion that i still love him. at the back of my mind is sayin' na "gusto ko pa cya". I dunno, God will make a way i know. Thanks for the advice. Ingat! (",)
@lyndee22 (1210)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
that really happens normally in life and why be nervous? there's nothing wrong seeing him because he is already a past part of your life and you can't just ignore him. don't pretend, it will just put you down as if you're guilty. be what you are, just normal as you are..don't panic, mind you he had forgotten your relationship before..
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
Awwww, that hurts! lol .. i dunno, what's really gotten into me these past days. Thanks anyway for the advice. (",)