how to deal with my man?

Philippines
March 22, 2007 3:11am CST
my boyfriend lives just a few blocks from me. but the mere fact that we're close in distance..i hardly see him.once a week is the most and that is only sundays when we go to church.he doesnt visits me in our house.and whenever i get to discuss allthis things to him,,i just end up broken hearted because he's doing nothing at all. how do i deal wiht him..we've been on for almost 8 months.
4 responses
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
Well, He might have other girl aside from you and his week is already scheduled and your schedule is every sunday. Good thing there is that he never forget God, Going to church with your love ones is helpful to your relationship. Or he is afraid that your family might react to his often visit.
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
im very sure he doesnt have any orher girl aside from me..he's loyal to me. we broke up several times and he keep comin back to me. i just dont get why he cant visit me
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
That is my point. If he can't visit you often, it just mean that he has someone else to visit, much more important than you. Loyalty is far more different than honesty. He might be Loyal but not honest.
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
i must say he's just applying for a work here in manila. and it took him so long to get the job (he's a seaman). he lives with her tita and he is the promdi type. he's the typical "mr. so perfect guy" no peers, no nightouts, no vices.
@maucute (980)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
I would probably feel the same thing as you did if I'm in that situation.. Imagine a few blocks and you would meet each other only a day for a week.. Talk to him about it, ask him is he's really that busy not to visit you. Just remind him that if he would do nothing the situation might be worse and you don't want anything like that to happen to your relationship..
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
thanks for helping.surely i will do that.
@subathra (3519)
• India
22 Mar 07
Just ask your boyfriend frankly that why is he avoiding you.You guys are living very close and happen to meet once in a week..thats a bad situation for you.This type of issues should be discussed in the beginning to avoid any more problem as its only 8 months in your relationship.
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
we've talked bout it often..i want to understand him as much as i could.but when i am alone and think bout it..it's just so hard to imagine he really cant visit me..
• Philippines
23 May 07
I think your guy needs something new to you. We guys, like me tend to get bored to things we always see but when we do find something new, our veins will be filled up with blood and we get excited and then we love it. But if your boyfriend loves somebody else that the will be very diffictult for you. I suggest before it happens you should make a move.