loss

United States
October 17, 2006 9:14pm CST
I lost my Boyfriend of a year and half to a tragic work accident, i miss him so much i cant explain it in words, maybe you can help me....its only been three weeks, and im just starting to realize what happened
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31 responses
@svalbard (384)
• Norway
20 Oct 06
I am so sorry for your loss. I guess no one who has not experienced to loose someone close could ever emagine what you are going trough right now. Allow yourself to miss your boyfriend and allow yourself to cry. By time you will figure out a way to make your life go on. You will never forget your boyfrined, but I am sure he wishes you to be happy. So when you feel ready - allow yourself to smile and laugh again. Best wishes
• United States
21 Oct 06
i am sorry for your loss. i lost my brother. here is something that has helped me. i hope it helps you out some. 1. you have the freedom to know your grief is unique 2.you have the freedom to talk about your grief 3.you have the freedom to expect a multitude of emotions 4.you have the freedom to allow for your pain
• United States
21 Oct 06
grief is nature's way of healing a broken heart
@missyann73 (1457)
• United States
18 Oct 06
I know you have heard this before, but time will heal. Just keep him close to your heart, and keep your memories in your heart. He would want you to move on, but never forget.
@dil_47 (73)
• India
21 Oct 06
don worry friend, it will wash away soon... jus get involved in things around ya... its a beautiful world out there n we ve got just little time in here..
• Nigeria
21 Oct 06
well i would wanna say you should take things easy.try make new friends, probably take a vacation to somewhere groovy, try take on a new sport and engage yourself in anything interesting.im sure you'd forget it after a while just like we all do when we miss someone we love.take heart
• United States
21 Oct 06
I Hope you heal very soon. I have never lost a boyfriend. I won't be able to understand. I do wish you the best in the future. He would want you to be happy. Try to hold on to the memories and be happy.
• United States
21 Oct 06
I'm sorry you hurt. I lost my step dad and grandfather suddenly. The pain was beyond belief. Pray. That's all that got me through.
@lotoflot (64)
• India
21 Oct 06
Dont worry, just forgot abt it and be happy..
• India
21 Oct 06
I feel very much sorry for that, but dont worry, just look for some other boy friend..
• India
21 Oct 06
I DID NOT LOSS ANY THING OR PERSON
• India
21 Oct 06
Hoo my god, don't feel bad we can't stop any one don't warry god is there for U always, best of luck and god bless U
@ladyheart25 (1816)
• Philippines
21 Oct 06
this topic really got me thinking now...
@Stiletto (4584)
21 Oct 06
I'm so sorry for your loss. It's only been 3 weeks so of course you will still be devastated. In time you will find it easier to cope and focus on the good times you had together.
@banta78 (4335)
• India
21 Oct 06
It is sad that you lost your boyfriend. But have faith in god and in yourself you may be destined for greater happiness in life.
@borg_queen (2535)
• Philippines
21 Oct 06
I'm sure your boyfriend would want you to go on.
@linkpointe (1003)
• Philippines
21 Oct 06
I know it would be hard on your part to recuperate from his loss. But your life doesn't just stop there...you need to move on. Your boyfriend will be much happier if he sees you ok. Don't dwell on the past for life will be miserable for you...MOVE on...
• Portugal
21 Oct 06
Wherever he is, surely wants for you to go on. And I know he´s always near you to protect and to guide you. I´ve lost a beloved one and that´s what I feel. The people we love, never will die. Wish all the best for you. Our hearts are with you if you need. :)
• United States
20 Oct 06
My heart goes out to you hun. Hang in there. I know it's really hard to see right now, but it will get better. Just know that he'll always be with you. {{{{{{hugs}}}}}}
@LovingIt (5398)
• United States
20 Oct 06
I lost my husband of 8 years suddenly in an airplane crash, several years ago, so I can identify really well with you. The best advice I can give you is that when you get to feeling like you can't hang on another minute without him, just stop what you are doing and remember the good times, the fun times, the happy times that you had together. He has been taken from you, but you will always have your memories of him and the time you two shared. Nobody can take that away. I know it doesn't feel like it right now, but it will get better. Time really does heal. There will always be times when you'll think of him and a tear will come to your eye, but those times will hurt less and be less and less frequent as time goes on. Hang in there.
• United States
20 Oct 06
You have my condolenses.
• United States
20 Oct 06
yea i completly no how u feel im in hiigh skool and in the past yr ive lost 2 good frnds to seperate car acc. both of where only 17 both seniors.....i dunno ive told myself that everything happens for a reason so just keep ur head and dont be sad all the time and drag urself around cuz i no he wouldnt want that be success full in everything u do and live ur life to the fullest but dont ever forget thats the way hed want it and i now thats how my 2 frnds would want it so good look and i wish u the best of luck
@raghavibm (544)
• India
20 Oct 06
I have lot quite a some money in the marketing and online eaerning because, i am not vwell vesred in the field of marketting.. I feel really sorry for you..
@rishal (354)
• India
20 Oct 06
anyting do..