Do you remember being you?

United States
March 23, 2007 10:38am CST
Ok people do you remember when life was just about you? When you didnt give up your self for your child/en or your spouse. Do you ever feel like life is muldane or boring ? What did you want to be or do when you grew up only to do something else. Im not saying having a family isnt rewarding because its very rewarding . But do you ever wished you became something that now you never will be . Did you lose your self on the way only to search for it again? Love to hear your thoughts.
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@Ravenladyj (22937)
• United States
23 Mar 07
LOL as snobby as this is goin to sound, and it will, life IS about me...and I wouldnt have it any other way....I havent given up any part of me for my kids nor my husband and I would never settle for that...I came to learn some yrs ago that if i dont put me first then I'm not going to be topnotch for my kids or my relationships be it wiht my husband or my dearest friends or whatever...So yes life is definately about me LOL
• United States
23 Mar 07
That's pretty selfish.
@deesamps (653)
• United States
23 Mar 07
I don't know, that's a tough question to answer. I don't think that I lost my self on the way, I think that I have just grown and expand into another part of me that would not be what I am today if I had chosen to live what I thought was my dream life. I wouldn't of met and married my husband and we wouldn't have our beautiful children that we have. I think God allows change in your life to bring us to the person that we are suppose to be or that he desires for us to be or become.