DO you get more AGRESSIVE when people tell you to STAY CALM!?

@Emilie88 (143)
Canada
March 23, 2007 11:53am CST
For me, I think it's the worse possible thing someone could tell me if I am getting a lil mad about something...I donno but for me, someone who is asking me to stay calm puts me on the edge ! I absolutly can't satnd it ... I find it very irritating ..AM I the only one who thinks that or you people share the same opinion ? Y do people keep saying it if they know it will make you more angry!? If you have other things you HATE to be told when your angry share it !
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4 responses
• Canada
23 Mar 07
I try not to be angry very often, However! on some occasions I've been angry and I find that it doesn't matter what the other person says, you'll be angry at them for it! Normally I just get angry when someone screws me over for something, or someone gets angry at me first! When I'm angry I have reason to be! If you get angry when someone tells you to call down! You should see analyze this, analyze that! with Adam Sandler and Jack Nicholson! it's so funny
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• Australia
23 Mar 07
Yes! I HA^TE it sooo much! i mean, really, to the point where im getting a little irritate just thinking about it! I don't know why people keep doing it when they know it makes me angry, and can only conclude that they are idiots. i am extremely irritable when i'm already angry.. i especialy hate people telling me these things: 'now, take some deep breaths...' 'there's no need to get so worked up..' 'i'm not going to talk to you when you're like this..' aaaah! now i'm really annoyed! and if anyone tells me to calm down... ....
@Emilie88 (143)
• Canada
23 Mar 07
OMG I SO AGREE! thanx so much for sharing this with me ..it made me feel so good ! lol
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• Canada
23 Mar 07
If someone tells you to calm down, they just don't undestand your position. If someone tells me to calm down I'd be angry too. They might also get a fork in the eye or something! Cause normally the person who said for you to calm down is the reason you're angry! BAH!!
23 Mar 07
Inevitably when someone tell you to calm down it's because you need to calm down. However, there are ways of calming you down that don't involve anything confrontational, it's usually the manner in which they speak to you.