What will you do if you found out that your husband is cheating on you?

@jsae29 (1122)
Philippines
March 24, 2007 7:42am CST
My husband works abroad and he only comes home every six months. Ilove him and trust him but sometimes I can't help but to feel that he might be cheating on me. Gosh, I would probably cry my heart out if this happens. But seriously speaking, I would confront him about this and ask for divorce or separation. No second chance for me. I do not think I can trust him anymore and because of this we will no longer have a healthy realtionship. For marriage is like a crystal glass, once you break it, you can never put it back. What about you...what will you do?
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6 responses
@jhazie (340)
• Philippines
24 Mar 07
Hi, for me if he did that to me wow thats hurt! but i will not nag him,i let him go out of my life. if he really has certain shortcomings for me i would accept that and talk with him and correct him in a gentle manner but if i found out that he cheat me oh my...its hurt and cry and i pray. then, leave.thats not cool huh!
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
24 Mar 07
well all one can do is the best and if you cant forgive then it is over
@toplen (335)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
Like you, my husband will be working abroad soon. I have some fears like yours too but i guess we should trust our husbands more coz that'll be our best weapon to knock off fears. Also, when he knows that you trust him and he really loves you and values you, he'll be more cautious and he'll feel more responsible for his actions. He will more likely be able to resist temptations because he wouldn't want to hurt your feelings. I also believe that prayers work, so let's pray that God will protect and guide them away from temptations.
• United States
25 Mar 07
I have much respect for you. I love my husband's attention and seeing him. I don't know how you live everyday without being with him. But if my love cheated we have already agreed it would be over. Because when someone cheats in a relationship it is a cry for help, and one of us took the road of fear and self gratitude. Instead of respect and morals.
@filchi (291)
• Netherlands
24 Mar 07
Cheating not just on me but also with his kids, so probably, will do the same as you, as what you believe.
@Madona1 (2097)
• Gibraltar
24 Mar 07
If I found out that my husband is cheating on me, first I would confront him and found out the reasons. Then I would leave him as I would never forget it though I may forgave him. It would be better for me to end that marriage life as I would n't trust him anymore, obvioulsy like any marriage it would hurt the children as well.
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
24 Mar 07
trust and honesty go hand in hand if you lose it then I think perhaps the marriage is over