who do you turn to when you have a problem??

@lpetges (3036)
United States
March 24, 2007 9:47pm CST
is it your spouse, your friend, your neighbor, your parents?
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@jess368 (3368)
• United States
27 Mar 07
My wonderful boyfriend. He is always around to listen to me vent, or cry, or yell, or complain. He is a very good listener, and i feel so comfortable talking to him when i need someone. Whenever we have issues we use eachother, and that is what a significant other is there for. To love you and help you, and listen. I love that we have that with eachother. There isnt anything i couldnt tell him.
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@lpetges (3036)
• United States
27 Mar 07
its nice to have that kind of person in your life!
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• United States
25 Mar 07
The person I have the problem with. Nothing like going to the source.
@lpetges (3036)
• United States
25 Mar 07
good for you! it sounds like you must take care of everything matter of factly.
@daycarepal (1998)
• United States
25 Mar 07
It depends on the problem. Although I always talk to my husband about a problem, I will sometimes talk to my sisters or friends first. It just basically depends on what the problem is and whether or not my husband is home at the time.
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@lpetges (3036)
• United States
25 Mar 07
this is most likely the same thing i do. i usually dump on my husband and tell him all my things going on. He is a good listener, and most of the time if figure it out myself, but the listening part is of great healing for me!!!
@nelltx (277)
• United States
25 Mar 07
90% of the time I got to my husband with any problem that I have, but depending what kind of problem it is, I would go to either my sister or mother in that order. My mother is good for problems that I have with my kids & if I need a boost in my self-esteem, my sister is a good confidant to talk to about my husband and other "woman" issues. I guess it all depends who has the solution or what problem that I have.
@lpetges (3036)
• United States
25 Mar 07
i wish i were close with my sister. she is not a person to go to when i have a problem,,most of the time She is the problem!
@jbrowsin66 (1322)
• United States
28 Mar 07
I guess it depends on the problem, but it's good to "vent" to someone!
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@dpk262006 (56473)
• Delhi, India
27 Mar 07
It depends upon the problem. If the problem arises due to my spouse, I can not turn to her, I will have to my go to friends' advice on the problematic issue. If the problem is with friends, then I will turn to my spouse for advice. I feel if I am in any problem, it is better to take someone (who is close to you) advice, instead of trying to resolve the issue myself.