is there really a perfect husbnad or wife?

@potpot (26)
Philippines
March 25, 2007 2:56am CST
i get to thinking is there such a thing called a perfect husband? i asked this question before i lived in with my now husband..i simply said to myself i don't think there is but there is a husband who will love you and take care of you and will not ever leave you no matter what. he may be not as rich as your next door neighbor who can offer you material things, but he maybe a simple person but who will do everything to make you happy... to all the peeps out there... is there such a perfect husband or wife?
14 responses
@fawcey (928)
• Australia
25 Mar 07
I believe perfect is a word that sets one up for failure as no one is or can be "perfect". But I do believe that there are men out there who love their wives and stand by them no matter what and respect them and appreciate them for who they are. They might not be perfect but they do the best they can. My husband has stood by me and loves me for me. He and I can talk about anything and everything and enjoy spending time together. We have a beautiful four year old son and to me my husband is the love of my life, and I wouldn't give him up for anything, but he is not perfect, though neither am I. That what makes our relationship strong as we take the good with the bad. We get on each others nerves sometimes and having annoying habits that the other puts up with, but we laugh about it later. Accepting someone warts and all, respecting them, giving as well as taking, and appreciating them can go a long way to making a great husband or wife...but no one is perfect.
@potpot (26)
• Philippines
25 Mar 07
thanks for the reply... having my husband stood by my side also made me feel secure... we're not perfect either... so i guess there's no such thing is perfect... even the world s not perfect... =)
• Malaysia
26 Mar 07
Yes, I think there are a lot of perfect husband and wife. But, not all of them is perfect and you must know every person do the mistake so, we must accept it. The really meaning of perfect husband and wife for me is they are responsibility and must trust themselves and do their good job for their family.
• India
26 Mar 07
well nothin is perfect.. even the best of best couple hav quarrel.. well the quarrel judges the relationship.. they say its gud to fight sum times.. as we all are human... if u love sum one the little quarrels wont effect ur relationship.. that is u will stand tall in the strong wind.. else u will be flown away with it
@anup12 (4181)
• India
26 Mar 07
I think there is nothing called real.I think all these terms are vague only.
• United States
26 Mar 07
I can't say there is a perfect mate for everyone, but I can say that I have found the perfect one for me. It took many long years and horrible relationships, but I finally found the perfect man for me. I am a true believer in the old adage, "there's someone out there for everyone." I think you just have to be patient and not settle for the wrong person. When I was young, I wanted so badly to have the perfect life with my perfect guy, that I just jumped into it too quickly. This proved to be disastrous. I finally decided to be patient, and love came to me when I wasn't looking for it. I believe that is what one has to do to be successful in finding the perfect person for them.
• India
26 Mar 07
there can not be a perfect husband or wife..
@anya11111 (169)
• India
26 Mar 07
only god is perfect! that too because we have made him that way. nobody is perfect! everyone has his good or bad habits and we as partners are supposed to overlook points which we do not like in our partner or discuss the matter and solve the probloem so it doent bother you anymore! that is the only and the best method. your relation should be very transperent and you should give each other lots of space so that clashes are only superficial!
@DANDTON (75)
• China
26 Mar 07
I think we needn't worry about this problem, everything should be by fate
@clod0327 (817)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
I don’t think there will always be such as thing as a perfect husband. We will always find something missing in our husband no matter how good they seem to be to us. But what’s important and what makes it perfect is how we accept who our husband really is without any buts and how we use that imperfections to nurture our love for each other.
• India
26 Mar 07
Well i think perfect is one word that has always been in talks of women and guys.Who is my perfect mate?...They keep on finding the answer for many years but there is no thing called "perfect" lives in this place.Nobody is perfect in every way.So do I and so do you. I think men who love there women stand by them in whatsoever problem and women who love there men always appreciate and support them without thinking about anything else.That is love.I think that is something that makes a life complete and that is only the definition for perfect.Fidelity in a relationship do pay.I think this is something very difficult to find and rest is all myth....
• India
26 Mar 07
I don't think their can be a perfect husband/wife.You might think a person is perfect for you before marriage. But after marriage, it is not so. No one in this world can be perfect.When you live with a person , you'll see that person in different behavior, good to worse.
@joodzki6 (596)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
i don't think so..nobody's perfect! it's really hard to find someone who will really take care of you no matter what...if you have found him/her, ur lucky..don't let him go away or else you'll never find another one again. i wish i find someone like that too...but all has his own fate..and that's for us to find out.
@marjcute (35)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
i dont think so if ther is a perfect husband.. bt for me if you find your husband who loves u truly, respect you and thats what i call my perfect husband...
• Philippines
25 Mar 07
There's no such thing as perfect husband or wife.Nobody's perfect. We are only human born to make mistakes.It's a matter on how you deal things in your relationship, family, finances, and everything.As long as you are contented with the life you have right now with your partner and very satisfied with your set-up.