Do you think I'm a good person ?
March 25, 2007 3:15am CST
I asked that before and someone said if you have to ask then you must not be!mean....
25 Mar 07
I think that it CAN be an inappropriate question to ask sometimes as it puts people on the spot, so to say. However, some people will ask this question when they want a bit of re-assurance or support. I've known someone who's depressed ask this question because their self-esteem and self-confidence is down, or maybe they've done something that some people might judge as 'bad' - had a one night stand or something like that. I think in these situations it's appropriate to give a straight forward, honest answer to them - if they've done soemthing that's a bit 'off' then you can just tell them that whilst they're not a bad person, their behaviour in this one instance might be a bit 'off', for example. It's a judgement call - and not always easy.
25 Mar 07
I asked the same question to several people until I realized that it's not an appropriate question to ask because it will only embarrass myself. I don't think we are mean if we ask that kind of question. There is just a clash of personalities that end up in fighting each other. It's just a matter of mingling with the right people and avoiding the bad ones. hehehe.
28 Mar 07
As itis obvious your are a good person.But someone said if you have to ask then you must not be! I differ, In first place, why did you ask this question is NOT necessarily because you are NOT a good person, but rather you needed it to be seconded by someone else besides yourself. Human species is a social animal and hence need another person, for that matter lot many people,all along. Getting a positive response to your question definately makes you happy becouse of Recognition. We will further discuss in detail about Recongition meanwhile rest assured that you are a good person. Well this not pampering I can proove it