What do you feel if you don't have any job?

@durenman (143)
Indonesia
October 18, 2006 4:49am CST
I feel that something missing, I don't know what it is. what about you?
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7 responses
@baronarthur (4188)
• Indonesia
18 Oct 06
I feel terrible. How I have done, why I don't have any job. Then I will think how to find the job.
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@Avichail (694)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 07
Many people when they lose their job will tend to put the blame on anything/anyone but themselves. But often we forget to evaluate ourselves through first. So, despite the terrible feelings that you have, I think it's good that you think first of what YOU have done, not what others have done to you...=)
@ackars (1942)
• India
3 Apr 07
I feel very useless of myself...I dont know what I will do..especially if I never had any job..But I dont think I will have such a condition as Im willing to do any job...
@Avichail (694)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 07
Dear Durenman, It must be very hard for men (I reckon you are a man?) to lose their job than it is for women. Perhaps because men are expected to be the breadwinner plus by nature men are more competitive than women and often based their dignity on how well they perform compare to other men. That's why their job is very important to them, it defines them, they feel lost without it (you tell me if this is right or not). I once almost went jobless because I didn't perform well in one field and when I asked for a transfer to another field, my direct superior didn't not allow me because he wanted me out. I worried because at that time my family could use well of the money I earned and I had no sufficient saving suppose I went jobless for several months. But nothing can happen without God's permission. That is the best lesson I learnt during that time. He allowed me to be in that situation to learn about myself and many things about me. When the lesson was done, although my situation did not necessarily change to my eyesight (I was still the next to be fired), my views of life changed and the possibility of losing job no longer had its sting on me. Later, I found out that even when I hadn't known it, God had actually already orchestrated everything to turn my hopeless situation into what I asked from Him, when actually at that time even if I was fired, it didn't bother me as it was before. So, that was one of those moments that God made me understand He is in the business of changing characters. He is more interested in changing me rather than changing my situation. The situation is only a tool. His first and foremost purpose is to change me. Durenman dear if you're losing your job right now, always take heart that God is real and He will do anything to shape you to be more like His son, it will be well with you...=)
@anjrit (997)
• Indonesia
22 Mar 07
Bored, frustate something like that...
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
when i have no job i feel so uncomportable with myself so intense and unhappy. Very depressing and nothing cant buy... Missing . Sometime i feel hopeless esp. when i need cash to bu some.. its not better for me if i have no job..
@queenstan (383)
• Indonesia
13 Feb 07
If I don't have any job, It's OK.. As long as I still have some money. Sometimes it would be better if you don't have any job and enjoy this life. Many people dreaming about life without job, but still making big money. It's only a dream.
@blessonje (1652)
• India
19 Oct 06
would be very sad ..wat else