How will i help my wife be happy?

Philippines
March 26, 2007 12:05am CST
My wife had a lot on her mind lately. Everything that happened in her past is creeping in now, she's very down and almost as if she's just trying to be alive for me and the kids. I want her to live her life because she wants to for herself also and be happy not because we are happy but happy for herself. How can i help lift her spirit?
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@Lavera1 (897)
• United States
26 Mar 07
Jobobal, I'm sorry that your wife is very down. But in you persona profile you stated that, "There are two things to aim at in life: To get what you want and after that, to enjoy it." So what's the problem? I pray for your wife in Jesus name and bind the spirits of oppression and depression away from her and lose the spirits of peace,life and joy over her. Be healed and delivered and set free in the name of Jesus.
• Philippines
27 Mar 07
You're the second person to call me as jobobal, and its kinda funny for me. Anyway, thanks for your prayer and may the spirits of GOD be also with you. Yes i want to get what i want, enjoy it and share it with my wife. the last one is my problem, she is very down right now to accept it.what more should i do?
@Tetchie (2933)
• Australia
26 Mar 07
Events from the past do seem to catch up with us eventually. It's hard for some people to express what's making them unhappy. When I get really down what I need is for someone to just be there for me, hold me and let me be sad in their arms. Sometimes just by being a caring person to someone, they will open up and rest on you for awhile. Sometimes when a person lives only for others they forget about themselves, and also forget how to make their life about themselves; Yet their spirit is crying out for attention. Be there for her and don't let her get away.
@czaroma (136)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
Be there for her at this time that she needs help. Help her overcome the bitterness that the past had caused her. Make her accept what had been, though it is not easy. Do things together to make her stay away from thinking any negative things. And don't forget to turn to prayer. This is the most powerful tool you need.
@palina77 (1178)
• United States
26 Mar 07
Ask her or her family that what she like and what she dislike. Avoid those she dislike and be attentive what she likes more. This will make you and your wife more happy in your conjugal life.