finally...i bursted it all out!

@joodzki6 (596)
Philippines
March 26, 2007 5:28am CST
just tonight i'd realized that i have to be brave in facing my problem..i have to face it no matter what the consequences it brings. i have been quiet for quite long with my real feelings for my hubby. i was afraid to tell him that i no longer love him because i was afraid that he might take my daughter away from me. But now, i'm ready for everything that might happened. i know if ever he'll get my kid, i'm sure i will get her again somehow. and i will do everything to take her back. I know what i did is right..i'm really fed up and tired of him. Do you think i still have the chance to recover everything i've lost, emotionally, psychologically? I've been insulted many times by him...and i must say it affect me somehow. my self esteem became low, because of him. This time i won't let it happen again. Do you think i did the right thing?
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5 responses
@MsTickle (25006)
• Australia
28 Mar 07
Of course you did the right thing...congratulations mate!. And you did it for the right reasons. You felt the fear but you faced it and told him. I wish I'd been there. Tell us how it happened, what he said, what you said. I'm so proud of you. !!
@joodzki6 (596)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
thanks, dude!..his reaction wasn't that good. the next day after we've talked, he took my kid away..i was so nervous that time, i thought i won't see my baby again...but i need to be strong, so, i went to his mom's house and took my baby again. fortunately, his parents understand me for that and gave my baby back. now, he still visiting the house, but just for my daughter...and i like it that way. thanks again, dude!
@willocfc (965)
• Australia
26 Mar 07
I think you have done the right thing in telling your husband what you are feeling but i am worried about your daughter, it sounds like you think he might just take her and he doesnt sound like a man who should be left with a child in his care if he has been abusive towards you. I would take your daughter and leave before he gets the chance and then go to the courts to get custody
@joodzki6 (596)
• Philippines
27 Mar 07
thank you...yes, i would definitely do that. i know it's a long process but i know i'll get through it. thanks again.
@sunshine4 (8710)
• United States
26 Mar 07
Only you can determine if you did the right thing. Would there be a reason that the courts wouldn't give you custody of your daughter? I would suggest that you get into counseling immediately. This will help you deal with many issues that you might not even know you have. Good luck.
@joodzki6 (596)
• Philippines
27 Mar 07
he has no reason at all...thank you for that.
@chengbeb (285)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
You did the right thing..stand up for your right girl. Always remember this no person can ever demoralize you in any way. You are who you are and you have every right to fight for your right. Yes, you might lose your daughter but if you work hard and prove to them that you are a worthy mother you will get her back no matter what. Our parents did not bring us into this world just to be bullied by other people so it's right that you stood up for your right!!!
@joodzki6 (596)
• Philippines
27 Mar 07
thank you..that made me feel better and hopeful.
@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
11 Apr 07
Yes you did and yes you will recover You will be amazed how strong you will be I suffered my Marriage 21 years as I tried to make it work but then I had enough. My Ex Husband did not want to adjust and stop treating me like he did. The Mental abuse got to much specially when I found out about my Illness. 5 years down the road I have my Life, I have 2 wonderful Kids that are Adults and I now have a Man that respects and loves me and I love him very much. So you see you will survive at least you did not wait as long as me Be strong and look ahead now not back