after you make a mistake, what do you do to reagin people's trust?

Philippines
March 26, 2007 5:33am CST
i need some suggestions!
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@perugu (5281)
• India
26 Mar 07
hi,friend,first that mistake is done by intentional or by mistake,people will assess.Some people basically good nature,but sometimes,by mistake or the situation,they may made mistakes and after realization all the people will start trust him slowly..But in the people where they are basically bad nature,they have to realize and they have to convince the society that they have changed which is very hard.
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@bloods (30)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
very nice thinking huh..
• India
26 Mar 07
we all make mistakes...but we should also learn to say sorry to the person whom we've hurt..lot of hard work is required to regain that trust again...i would hold his hand and talk to that person and try to explain him what made me do that mistake,take his help to sort out the problem..if that person really understands u and loves u..he'll definately wont let u down
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• Philippines
26 Mar 07
i hope this works on me.. thanks for the suggestion..
@mannu123 (144)
• India
26 Mar 07
First thing to do should be apologize and accept your fault.
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• Philippines
26 Mar 07
what if i already apologized and said sorry many times and still she doesn't accept it even if it is just a petty fight?
• United States
26 Mar 07
Though it may sound alittle shallow at first, money. One of the best ways to gain trust is to show a person they're worth your money, paying for meals works expecialy well.
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• Philippines
26 Mar 07
thanks for the suggestion. i will try to do that even if i am a little money conscious hehe.. just to regain the trust i'll do anything.
@LittleMel (14055)
• Canada
26 Mar 07
If I make mistake I would definitely say Sorry or if it's big mistake I would apologize by sending cards or at least come to visit and have a chat. Whether they would trust me or not after what happened, it's their prerogative. I feel better already if I apologize since it is my fault anyway.
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@lovesu (143)
• China
26 Mar 07
just be honest and hearty
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@Willowlady (10666)
• United States
26 Mar 07
First off I would admit that I made a mistake. Then fix it if possible. Honesty is the way to earn the trust of those you work for. They then know that they can depend on you for real. Good luck with this. I hope it works out for you.
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
yeah thanks for the suggestion, i'll try that one.
@LittleMel (14055)
• Canada
26 Mar 07
yes I agree with you. the least we can do is fix whatever we did wrong the same time we apologize.
@winterose (39918)
• Canada
26 Mar 07
It depends on the mistake, you apologize try to fix the mistake perhaps give something extra for the trouble and promise and show that you will never do it again