i think my brother inlaw is cheating.....

@djmarion (4903)
Philippines
March 26, 2007 9:12pm CST
my sister and her husband has been married for 4 years and is living with us. they have 1 kid age 3. at first my brother-in-law seems to be a good husband but later on he started to change, he come home late when he's suppose to come home early since he is already a father, and most of the time he come home drunk. he lost his job also and last i heard he was fired because of money-matters which he kept secret from my sister and from us. im so mad at him, i lost the respect he earned from me and i dont think we can still be a good family together. what should i do, do you think my sister should know the truth?
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• Philippines
28 Mar 07
i know how you feel and i symphatize but in telling your sister there is a huge posibility that she will not believe you and you will only end up quarelling.
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• United States
27 Mar 07
I'm sure your sister has her own suspicions on the matter. And you should talk to her about it, but don't be surprised if she gets angry. It is a hard thing to face and love is blind. Support your sister, but don't nag her about it.
@djmarion (4903)
• Philippines
27 Mar 07
maybe yes, but how will his husband learn his lesson if my sister will always be blinded by love.
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• United States
27 Mar 07
You can tell her how you feel but don't expect it to make her take action. Sometimes it takes a build up of little hurts and suspicions to cause some affirmative action. You need to be there for your sister but don't try and force her to see what is going on, she will only fight you tooth and nail.