Frustrated

Philippines
March 27, 2007 8:14pm CST
I already got 12 boyfriends before. I've been in relationships that never really work, though i love the guy. Im frustrated to falling inlove again. =(
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5 responses
• Philippines
28 Mar 07
Twelve boyfriends in that early age? That was a record I guess. I think you're not into the relationship serious enough. I don't know the real reasons of your twelve breakups but I think there are certain things that are lacking in your past relationships. Maybe you should take some time to reflect and take things into consideration. Consider why it end up and how does it end? Make a list of the things that affects the relationship that somehow leads to a break up and avoid it in the future. Establish a good sense of logic in reasoning out. Think maturely and value the relationship you have. If the problem is not in you, then maybe you still didn't find the right one. Just wait and don't rush for love to come to you. It will come just in time. Just be patient. Don't enter in a relationship for the sake of being in it but because you love the person unconditionally. Love till it hurts cause you only knew that you love if you are hurting. Don't be afraid to fall in love again. Not all guys are all like your twelve exes. Just don't expect too much in return. Have fun and be true to yourself.
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• Philippines
3 Apr 07
Thanks for your great answer. I like it. I'll take your advice. Maybe your right. I never had enough time to think.
@ronreyes (4724)
• Philippines
7 Apr 07
12 boyfriends? Wow! Can I be your 13? LOL. Hehe just joking! Well I'm not really a love guru but I think I have an advice. Maybe God wants you to focus on your studies first. I'm sure He had a plan for you in the future that requires a lot of knowledge. There's a perfect time for relationship like when you are ready to get married. I think you have to concentrate with your studies first so you won't get frustrated. - Ron Reyes www.ronreyes.co.nr
• Philippines
7 Apr 07
I'll take your advice. I think your right. I've been single for almost three months and i'm loving it. I got higher grades before. I just hope that when the right guy comes, it's not too late.
@scor18 (35)
• Pakistan
2 Apr 07
Well what sould i say after reading that u have 12 ex-boyfriends but i just only want to ask that did ur ex-boyfriends are not sincere with u or u were not sincere with them???
• Philippines
7 Apr 07
I really don't know. Sometimes i blame myself and there are times i blame my boyfriends. Maybe i'm always stuck to the wrong one. That's why.
@fast4ward (228)
• Canada
28 Mar 07
Hope that the next one will be the good one. I have been single for the last 9 years and I have never been happier. I am not looking or flirting and it kept me away from trouble. :)
• Philippines
3 Apr 07
Let me ask you something, you may be out of trouble but are you happy? I mean, don't you miss having someone to care for you?
• United States
28 Mar 07
Umm...just go slow and take it one step at a time. If it doesnt work out, he's not the guy for you.