affair

India
March 27, 2007 11:15pm CST
is it right to be in love or have an affair with a girl older than u or even if she is married..
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14 responses
@lvhughes (545)
• United States
28 Mar 07
it doesnt matter how old anyone is a affair is wrong if the person is married. its never right.when your married nothing matter more than that.
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@hoghoney (3749)
• United States
28 Mar 07
some one having an affair with anyone that is married or both married is just wrong and someone will end up getting hurt in the long run. if you are having an affair with a person that is married you need to end it quick just thiink about if you were the one that was with someone and you found out that they were having an affair how would you feel? well that is how this other persons husband is going to feel when he finds out what is goin on. and I always say if they cheat on there husband then soon she will cheat on you also. so you must end it now. love has nothing to do with it.
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• India
28 Mar 07
who really cares all those things now a days. wat ever the affair may be
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@omycash (11)
• Bangladesh
28 Mar 07
u shouldnt hvae any affair with any one married.bu u could have relation with older someone.
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• India
28 Mar 07
I've seen many cases like that (i am not a phsychiatrist). It is okay to love someone who is older than you but NO AFFAIR. You cannot have an affair with someone who is already sharing his/her soul with his/her husband/wife, but you can affectionately love them like the way you love your mother and father. [Is it happening with you, you may discuss it with me: amritanshu.singh@gmail.com]
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@perugu (5281)
• India
28 Mar 07
hi,friend,affairs and love with older than you and even with married will be happened in peculiar situation.They are not normal and some special situations leads to that,so before we say right or wrong we have to see the back ground for that affair or love also.
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• India
1 Apr 07
if you love her...so what's the problem , as long as you know the consequence and ready for the worse circumstances
@thanuarun (290)
• India
1 Apr 07
to be in love with a girl older than u or getting married to an older girl is not a problem... but this happence with a married girl is the problem...try to avoid complications...if she is not satisfied with ur love..surely she will go with other person...breaking a family is not a good thing...tell her to love her husband...if her husband really very bad and cant live with him(its happening many places)tell her to go for divorce, then u can...
@EvanHunter (4030)
• United States
1 Apr 07
Nope and you may be in love but she is definately using someone either you or her husband and in the end the truth always comes out.
@Buchi_bulla (8299)
• India
30 Mar 07
Already life is complicated. Why should we further complicate it and get into unnecessary headache? Loving a girl who is older is itself secondary. Still if they are ok with each other no problem. But certainly never love a girl who is married. It not only spoils your peace of mind, but the life of three people are put into a fry pan.
@wachit14 (3601)
• United States
29 Mar 07
The issue is not age, it is the marital status of the person. Adultery under any circumstances is wrong.
• United States
29 Mar 07
It is never right to have an affair! As for age, that is up to the individual person.
• India
28 Mar 07
love is an emotional n not a rational issue...so u cant help falling in love wid a person as it is not always under ur control...but yes if we fall in love wid a married women we should'nt confess our love to her as this might bring trouble into her married family life..but no such problems wid older women..if a women can marry men older to them then why cant men marry women older to them...
@puisha (135)
• India
28 Mar 07
hi dear.welcome to mylot.its not at all right to have an affair with a lady who is married,being older does not matter but being married matters a lot.you cannot break one's home to make yours.it is such a wrong deed.