Help?

@easy888 (10406)
Australia
March 29, 2007 5:15pm CST
'I like to help people and i also like someone help me, when you are helping people, you are not seeking for rewards and a simple thank you from them will make me happy')) How about you ??? DO you like to help other people?? Have you got any good/bad experieces if helping people/someone help you ??? How is the difference with and without the help??? ''Sometimes doing people a small favour may make a huge difference'::)))
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70 responses
• Bangladesh
30 Mar 07
yes ,i like to help people.i don't expect anything by return from the people i help.its not important for me that whatever they give.but it is important for me that i helped them & it gives me great pleasure & peace in my mind.
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@lafavorito (2970)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
I help people whenever I can, the only reward I'm waiting for is their smile and a simple Thank You. My mother on the other hand helps people thinking that she'll get something in return.
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• India
30 Mar 07
i also help the people if i can and i think u say right. we never expect any thing from other if we help them although we r people if we not help each other during need then who will help us.i never think that we should not expect anything from others whenever they heve been helped by us.
@stateroad (731)
• United States
30 Mar 07
I try and help people as much as I can because it makes me feel so much better and makes me feel like I am doing good in the World. I have to admit people do not return the favor. I have siblings who will not help me at all at that hurts. I have noticed that strangers or friends will help me more then my Family members.
@Lakota12 (42794)
• United States
30 Mar 07
we have always helped people by opening our home for them to stay untill they get on their own feet we have had a lot of thankful people thats enough. One time we had I think $2. to our name and hubby had gone to the union hall and a fellow shook his hand and when hands came apart the feller had left a $50 bill in hubbys hand I got the kids some food
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@lucalucky (1841)
• Italy
30 Mar 07
That's good and has to be good for everyone. I like, when I can to help people and usually I do that. I feel happy when I can do something that help someone and I hope that everyday we do something for the others.
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• Singapore
30 Mar 07
Sure thing! I love helping people. In fact if possible, I always offer my help. I would always add that they can feel free to contact me if they need more assistance. Helping people is fun, enjoyable and rewarding in itself! ;-)
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• India
30 Mar 07
I like to help other people but not to stranger's..the one whom i know quite little.... as i know it's good to help other but sometime's it will going to cost you...you will be in trouble..the nxt sec....not alway's...but i h've a good feeling's for other and i admire that.....ya i go with you as sometimes even a small favour make a huge difference..really you are true......so if you need to be help by me...then you have to make friendship with me...isn't it??? hey just kidding???? i like to help you when you going to help in my need...right dear????bye tc.....
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@easy888 (10406)
• Australia
30 Mar 07
Of course you will not help someone you do not know..It is normal..
@disvachic (10125)
• United States
29 Mar 07
I love helping others.The type of work i do involves helping others.I dont expect anything either when im helping others because im doing it from my heart and i really mean it.I have been blessed with many blessing.Give and you shall recieve.
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@easy888 (10406)
• Australia
30 Mar 07
i am not seeking for rewards when helping people..
@teison2 (5924)
• Norway
29 Mar 07
I have always liked to help people a lot. I even chose a profession where I would get to help people every day all day. I do not really have any bad experiences helping people. Now i do not get to help much at all. Due to my ME I am housebound and can only do a few things myself. I need help for most everything. Had I not had my partner, my family and my friends to help me I would be in a nursing home right about now, I think. I would at least need to hire people to come and help me several times a day. So I am really grateful for all the help I am getting. I hope I will be able to be of help myself some day soon. At least i am still able to listen. That can be very helpful sometimes, can it not?
@easy888 (10406)
• Australia
30 Mar 07
your friends will be glad to have you to know you as you are so helpful.
@varnum11 (77)
• United States
3 Apr 07
I once helped a lady with some money. I drove up to a public phone. I told the lady, God told me to give this to you. It was only $100. The lady never knew me. I didn't know her. But it was the right time. She was in need. I never saw her again.
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@marciascott (25557)
• United States
3 Apr 07
Yes trying to help people you get screw around. I have helped several people and thats what happens. I help one person she couldn't say thank you I gave her 25 moneymaking sites. I couldn't even get a thank you . I think I won't be helping anyone here anymore. then I help you and you copied off my discussion. about Mylot gave us a raise. I couldn't believe that, you copied my discussion we were suppose to be friends friends don't do that. I would never copied off none of my friends discussion. that is like cheating!
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@mansha (6301)
• India
31 Mar 07
Yes both of us me and my hubby always bail people out but as he is still continuing with that now I have become choosey a bit. In the sense now I don't get involved much. he still goes out of his way. he says you should not expect anything and just keep doing good. I also believe that, I do not expect thankyous but recently a person we helped for fourteen years, gave him full education and everything and I didn't buy curtains for my house for six years used to hang bedsheets, used to forgo buying my own clothes so that we could send money to him , that person has turnmed his back to us after he got married and both he and his wiofe are spreading rumors about me everywhere and even passing derogatory remarks against me i our mutual friends and relative's place . ensuring that the comments should reach me. wioating for me to react. Which I have decided I wont. I wont take family feud out on to open for everyone to watch. This has made them bolder and bolder ,s till I am keeping mum. But this incident has just repulsed me and I wish I would have put my foot down long back when I had come to realise that he was squandering all our money. But I didn't want to hurt my hubby ove4r such stuoid thing as money. And he loved that person a lot and still loves him, I guess when its that close you can not help it. I would expect at least respect not even obligation but just respect in return of my helping someone out. Its lack of respect, that hurts most.
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@pismeof (855)
• United States
30 Mar 07
Yes I think helping people IS the reward .Depending on the type of help being offered it can add meaning and purposefulness to our own lives
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@Willowlady (10666)
• United States
30 Mar 07
I do like to when I can, since our housefire we have been 'needy'. When we are back on our feet I am going to give back to those that have helped the bit that they could. I have kept track and if they don't take my 'reward' I will donate in their name. In market gardening I will growing a row for SecondHarvet and the local food giveaway program. Helping is the name of the game in our lives.
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@shakeroo (3991)
• Malaysia
30 Mar 07
When I help someone, I have never expected any return from that. To see that you I have in one way or another helped a person in need is enough to make me happy. You are definitely right about a small help does make a huge difference!
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@vikasintl (267)
• India
30 Mar 07
yeah I also like helping. Yes sometimes when I tried to help people would doubt on my intentions particularly girls so sometimes I get hurt trying to help correct right help at the right can change someones' life.
@kunalsp (428)
• India
30 Mar 07
helping others gives a satisfaction and happiness to me. I donot care about the rewards against helping others. I think helping others is like doing god's work rather worshipping god. So keep on helping.
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@TexLadyPj (1329)
• United States
30 Mar 07
I've been told I have a "Big Heart", another word for compassionate personality. I help with ho thought of reward on this end, however, watch me glow when I get a simple thank you. Compassionate cups do not fill themselves, they need refilling and thank you's are one way of refilling them, so that is my "two cents" worth.
@all4ucnc (861)
• United States
30 Mar 07
I like helping, it makes me feel good to know that I have been able to make someones day go easier, I always like it when people return the favor when I am in need. That's what good freinds do, As long as I know they appreciate it, that's all the reward I need. Though I have received flowers, cards and lunch dates and sometimes that's nice too.
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