Ever had EXCESSIVE Break-up in a RELATIONSHIP??

United States
March 30, 2007 10:51pm CST
Ever dated someone where you were constantly breaking up with them? Everytime you got into a fight?? sometimes it would only last a few hours, other times it would last a week. What about when you were apart from them, did you date others, were things done that made it difficult to go back to them?
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• Philippines
31 Mar 07
This can never happen to me. I have this habit of getting rid with finality with anyone who has crossed me deeply. There is no getting back once I have said the words, sorry we're through. The truth is, I don't understand why women allow their boyfriends to play with them that way. Wouldn't it be better if we start to learn to hold our ground? Let us start to mean no when we say no, yes when we say yes, and never again is never again.
• United States
31 Mar 07
Good for you
@aizavel (558)
• Philippines
31 Mar 07
I dont think i would date others if there is an argument maybe its just natural and eventually both parties would try to compromise :0)
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
1 Apr 07
yep. it's not nice to date others just because you have confrontations or arguments. you won't have a clean conscience anyway. better date when you are really single again.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
1 Apr 07
yep. when i had a relationship for 8 years in the past. he always cheated on me. and so, we mostly end up arguing... me proving what he's doing was wrong and him, proving that i have no proof at all and that he never cheated. some men! hehe. anyway, i end up breaking up with him. we do have lots of heavy fights and heavy break ups. but after a few hours, one of us comes back to apologize and try to ask for another chance. i was stupid that time i admit that even if i got cheated on many times, i kept on hoping that he'll change one day. nope. i am not into dating others while in a relationship... whether it's long distance or not. i still believe in honesty and loyalty. i always try to be faithful to my partner.
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@gberlin (3836)
1 Apr 07
No I have never been in that type of a relationship. I think that if they wanted to break up with me I would feel sad but move on.
• United States
31 Mar 07
Yes, but it wouldn't really be like a real breakup, because we would still talk every day, etc. and neither of us was doing anything with other people. I think it was just furstrations building up
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