Best decision

@easy888 (10406)
Australia
March 31, 2007 1:57am CST
Have you ever make an important decision that have a huge impace on you ? What was it ?? how was the impact? DO you make your own decision or are you affected by other people easily??
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35 responses
• Ireland
31 Mar 07
I made one important decision last year and that was to move out of my house in the quiet countryside and buy a new semi-detached house in a small village. It mage a husge impact on my because the next door neighbours are very noisey and are always playing loud music and banging doors. Now I have my house up for sale once more and I am going to move back out into the countryside. Of course it wasn't just my decision, my wife played a big part in it as seh has to listen to noise all day while I am out working.
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• China
1 Apr 07
to pleasure listen to you move out of yor house in the quiet countryside.far away the next door neighbours are noisey?loud music and banging doors.
@yanstill (1491)
• China
31 Mar 07
i am easy to change my mind if more than two of my friends say something opposite,so i think i am easily affected by others,sometimes i think this is a kind of trust,if i trust that person,i am affected by him/her easily,if not,whatever he say,i do nothing
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@easy888 (10406)
• Australia
2 Apr 07
I wil lask my friends for opinios and decide it myself.
@xelissa (777)
• New Zealand
31 Mar 07
Best decision ever made by me was to marry my husband =)
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@easy888 (10406)
• Australia
31 Mar 07
good ...you have found the right one..
@lols189 (4798)
31 Mar 07
i make my own decisions. i try not to get easily affected by others as it is my life
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@liranlgo (5743)
• Israel
31 Mar 07
well i believe that each person is effected by the environment he lives in in by his family when he makes desicions. the question is how much effect do they have and how much his target is important to him. i have made important dicisions all of my life. and i have to say that my wish was first and after that i listned to everybody's advices but i did always act by what i thaught was important to me. i know that 2 months ago i was offered a good job in the u.s. this was a job that you can not find in the paper. but i decided to let it go. cause right now staying at my country and near my family was the most important to me. and i think that i did the right decision for myself:)
• Canada
31 Mar 07
I try not to let others influence my decisions. I find that I'm more energized when i do come up with decision that mostly effect me in the long run. Sometimes i don't like to making decisions that effect other because they have to learn how and when they should make decisions that'll of course effect them. Although i do find it hard to help them with a decision because they haven't let themselves decide on their own.
@miryam (6510)
• Italy
31 Mar 07
I do not decide alone to sometime I ask councils, I listen, but then they are I to decide and often I have already decided.
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• Israel
31 Mar 07
Well, I can't find where to start. I have made a lot of important decisions. I started my life as a student in a university about 3 years ago, and ever since my goals and the "who I want to be when I grow up" image changed. Another big decision was to start my own home-based buisness. Besides the wealth involved, it is an MLM wellness buisness. It means that not only it helped my own and my family's health, I was also able to help others improve their own health and financial state. I learned about my own fears and how to overcome them. I learned how to dream properly - not let reality decide about my dreams. I have become an international buisnessman. All of it applied to my personal life - personal growth in self assurance, my image in my eyes is now different and I am much more optimistic and vital. It is amazing! I think things like that happen to those who decide to live their dreams and stop being afraid of failure or what others would say. The first decision one should make is - I want my dreams to come true. I have much more to say about decisions, since I have just engaged to my beautiful beloved Yael, whom I met in the university (the best thing that happened from the decision to study...). I am so glad to read about other's good life changing decisions - it makes me feel better. Those who made a seemingly wrong decision - think of all the good things that happened afterwards; do you think any of them would have happened without that seemingly bad decision? Unless you violate the ten commandments, I do not think there is a real bad decision, only a bad judgment.
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@peisiyi (125)
• China
31 Mar 07
i am a person easily to be affected by other friends,relatives,colleagues .but i think this tend is not a good direction in your life.sometimes you should use your own decision to determine the nex step.maybe it is a wrong decision ,but it will help you to get rid of the impact from the peole surrounding you .idependence wil make your more mature ,and confidence ,i think ,which will contribute to your life ,career ,etc.there is no possiblity to turn to help or advice to help you out in time when you suddently face a trouble.and it seems that there is no special decision in my life to worth of impacting me significently .how werid!
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@samrat16 (2442)
• India
31 Mar 07
Well important decision in my life was I got married . I made decision at some 10 o'clcok in morning and got married at 1 in afternoon . The decision changed my whole life and I'm on happy side of it .It changed my whole life and I'm on gaining from last three years. I love to decide on myself for everything which is going to make a difference in my life.
• Australia
1 Apr 07
My best decision was approaching this girl i met in the mall 4years back. Now she is my girlfriend. I always make my own decision
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@easy888 (10406)
• Australia
1 Apr 07
that is good
• United States
1 Apr 07
I have made many decisions that have impacted my life. One was divorcing my first husband of 24 years and that was done with others in consideration. Another was marrying the man who is now my husband. I love him deeply and the way he treats me, which is like a queen, impacts my life positively everyday!
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@easy888 (10406)
• Australia
2 Apr 07
Enjoy your life...and be happy everyday.
@perugu (5281)
• India
1 Apr 07
hi,friend,yes,it was happened in my case.When i had to select one course to join in degree out of 2.one is agriculture and another is veternary....but i opted agriculture.Now i am feeling bad as veternary degree got bright future than agriculture.this is my life long mistake.
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@easy888 (10406)
• Australia
2 Apr 07
you may also do well in agriculture,.,who knows.
@lonewolfnan (4367)
• Canada
1 Apr 07
I do occassionally allow other people to make the decissions for me,but then I reach a point when I decide my decision and can/will not have my mind changed.When it comes to MAJOR impact,that is when I will go with my gut feelings.Buying a vehicle I was not comfortable with,maybe a holiday,or making a large purchase is open to discussion.Family,work,and friends are MY decision as I am the one who has to live with the fallout.
@easy888 (10406)
• Australia
2 Apr 07
I will always trust myself...so that i will not blame other people if something went wrong.
@netski_15 (423)
• Philippines
31 Mar 07
The decision to get married is pretty hard for me. But it's worth it. Now I have my family and I can't ask for more. When I was still single I decide by my own without listening to others. But when I get married, I always consult my husband when deciding on something.
@easy888 (10406)
• Australia
2 Apr 07
I also want to habe happy family life and a good husband to rely on.
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
31 Mar 07
Getting married has been the largest decision that I have ever made. Buying property would be the next. That is for me personally in the physical realm. The most important decision was to place God first.
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@easy888 (10406)
• Australia
2 Apr 07
True ..Marriage should be the momst important decision in life.
• United States
31 Mar 07
I would think it was moving to florida. We really could not afford to live in NY anymore, and the winter set in, the price of oil was more than we could pay. So we got rid of all our stuff and moved to Florida to wait out my accident case. After 6 months it was settled, and we could now afford to buy a home.
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@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
31 Mar 07
I try to make my own decisions but I admit that I have been affected by other people pretty easy.
@marciascott (25557)
• United States
31 Mar 07
I had made a bad dicision about quiting my job. I seem to make bad dicisions with out thinking, sometimes. I really made a bad discision that time. because it is hard for me to get a job now. that pays. that job was paying good money. I think that if I had of thought out things more clearly I would see have the job.
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@Lakota12 (42794)
• United States
31 Mar 07
I usually make my own dicisions I mught talk to someone about it but then go ahead with what I wanted in the first place. Like going 3 years ago to stay with my mom in the hospital stayed 24/7 talked her till she just knew she would walk again with out that old ugly walker . She was also afraid she would never drive again she did till just before the stroke she had 2 weeks ago. I have a feeling that I made a big difference by going ,and my sister in law called me the angel that was needed. even if every one didnt want me to come up. No one there had time to spend with her and I did. They didnt even think that the hospital would let me! Well they hadnt even thought to ask,but I knew I could for I had done it with alot of my hubbies family in years past
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