love or looks? what is important..

India
April 1, 2007 3:49pm CST
what is important for u in a relationship...do luks really matter? or is jus luv dat matters??
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8 responses
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
Love is the most important in a relationship but before going to a relationship, looks play a great role to be engaged in a relationship. It is the looks that we are attracted to a person. When i say looks, i don't really mean that a person should be handsome or beautiful but he/should be presentable, neither ugly nor beautiful. A saying said: It is easy to love the lovable than the unlovable. But there is really a person who is so much in love with what we called ugly because not all ugly in our eyes are ugly with everyone; it could be presentable to another. Maybe there's a dominant factor that that person possesses that made him/her beautiful and acceptable. But in a relationship, it is character that last and not the outward appearance. Your relationship will go on smoothly if you are able to handle it because of being flexible, understanding, etc.
• United States
1 Apr 07
Look is important and sometimes it attracts you but for long lasting relationship love is the most important thing.
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• Canada
1 Apr 07
It's a little bit of both for me. I would like to be physically attracted to the one I love, heh.
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• Philippines
1 Apr 07
For me, looks really matter.I mean, if the person is a total mess, why would someone like him..How would anyone like a him. Unless that person is blind. Reality bites, people prefer good looks, or in other cases, good attitude.Love does matter a lot, though. Although, I believe that love can be learned, too.
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• United States
1 Apr 07
Love is the most important. Yes, there does have to be some phyisical attribute that initially attracts you, but it is love in the end that truely wins out. Over time that initial physical attraction wanes and looks fade over time. That killer body you had at 20, you won't still have at 60, so there has to be more to the relationship than looks alone. Love is the best feeling in the world. To have the person who you love come home at the end of a hard day and wrap their arms around you. Makes everything right in the world.
• Canada
1 Apr 07
Looks are only a minor factor in how you feel for someone . You have to have some physical attraction to the person to love them but you can love something about their personalitly that will take over how they look and make the person more attractive to you . The individual could have a very kind heart and truely care about you and this would change in how you found a person looked . So I would have to say that looks is not that important factor in a person falling in love , in fact in a lot of cases people who do look really well are very self conscious about themselves and can only think about themselves and expect more from you as they figure somehow you owe them because they look well . Although this is definitely not the case with everyone and it is good to feel well about yourself but there is a point where one could take it too far .
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• Philippines
2 Apr 07
hi! actually we're attracted physically to a person but it's love that matters because if you love someone you won't care how she/he looks like we're blinded by our emotions. so as for me, its love that matters..remember the song "love is all that matters? i hope this could help..a grat day to you!
@aprilsong (1886)
• China
2 Apr 07
Well, of course,looks do matter in a relationship.Cuz before we get to know each other well,it is the looks that attract the couple to come near.But as the time goes on,love becomes more important than looks in a relationship.And sometimes you may fall in love with a person you dislike at first.I think in a marriage love matters more than looks.