Can a Guy & Girl be just friends???

India
April 4, 2007 10:15am CST
I have heard this topic more than a 100 times. I have had friends who are guys and have had a very good relationship with them. I have never thought about them in any other angle.. They have always been "just friends" for me.. But some of my friends thinks otherwise.
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10 responses
4 Apr 07
Why cant ? it all depends upon the faith n trust between them..as far as concerned abt me , i never going to think about their gender once i gel with them finely. i strongly believe that guy n girl become not only a froends but best froends too
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• India
7 Apr 07
I agree with you. So far our relationship is proof of that too. You are one friend in my life whom i would like to keep forever..
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• India
25 May 07
After knowing you all these days and talking to you literally every day it is very difficult to pass on even a single day without your thought. I do not regret our friendship. You are my best friend without whom i would feel at a loss.
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• India
9 Aug 07
Dear Friend, I feel this is totally depend on the way of behaving of self..If we behave with anybody softly then he/she may also get soft corner in his/her heart...So it is depend on both also..If any one of them behave likethat so it may natural...As it is one the Wonderful Thingin the life and also one of the Soft thing in the life,,so most of the people are failed due to Curiosity.. So guy may failed possibly due to girls willing to have it..And girls may failed due to personality of the guy.. But still girls are brillient to handle such situations but guys are lacking in that..According to servey of people i did...this is the case with 95%people.
• India
9 Aug 07
Hi! Thanks for your response Saurabh. Your response is appreciated. Afterall, we are friends too, are'nt we?
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@Sharon38 (1916)
• Jamaica
15 Aug 07
yes. Nothing is wrong with that and if your friends think otherwise you cant stop them. People are just what they are people. They will run to conclusion without any could supportive arguments so continue to be you thats all there is. guys make better friends than most women anyway.
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4 Apr 07
Hey, i can say surely unless there is any profit motive is there, and lot of cleanity and clarity while interacting with the people is there. if any body say guys are fools and if u have a concept we use them as a tool then there is not a friednship only the utilisation of people or the concept ok making them roam around you. Guys i can say unles speople are clean and clear that ok, if any body finds stuffs & profit then i guess then no friendship is there amongst guys and gals, only the utlisation, lust , stuffs, and worstly the act of making people fools. comes into scenario.
• India
7 Apr 07
You maybe right.
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• India
4 Apr 07
Yes , of course guys and girls can just be friends.Now a days every body is so open minded that nobody sees that whether its a girl or boy but just make friends according to choice.And i also agree with you that their are a lot of persons whom you just consider as friends but they they take it other way.This is some thing very immature, one should be able to differentiate between friendship and other feelings.
• India
7 Apr 07
You are absolutely right about the necessity to differentiate friendship and other feelings.
@sexyanne (67)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
Guy and a Girl can be just friends in many ways as they could think of themselves as a true and real friends by thick and thin.Then they could be lovers too..To be in love with each other were friendship begins.
@Nanette99 (220)
• Canada
16 Aug 07
Of course! One of my very close friends is a guy. I have known him forever and now my boyfriend knows him too. They hang out almost as much as my friend and I do. There is no jealously because my bf now knows and trusts both my friend and me.
@nikkiwith (1074)
• Australia
16 Aug 07
There has been lots of guys i have just wanted to be friends with, but they wanted more, and when i said no, they didn't want to be friends. And another reason is; the guy had a girlfriend who would get jealous, so he couldn't be friends with me. I haven't got 1 guy friend.
• Brazil
15 Aug 07
Yes, I believe so When I was at school, I had a friend who was a boy and studied with me since junior to high school and we never dated, we were like brother and sister That's why I think it's possible for a man and a woman only be friends
@senthil2k (1501)
• India
15 Aug 07
Yes, why not ? Thats perfectly possible in today's world. But I believe that was a big problem few decades ago. But still today, this has created some problems in our country. As far as the boys and girls know their boundaries, they can always be a good friends and share their feelings.