cheating husbands

@ravinskye (8237)
United States
April 4, 2007 11:20am CST
what would you do if you thought your sisters husband is cheating? my sister met this guy about a year ago. with 2 weeks or so they were sleeping together by 2 months together she was pregnant and by about 7 months together they got married. since they've been married there have been some unusual acts from him. one day he left for work like an hour earlier then he needed to and my husband saw him coming down from the direction where his ex girlfriend is now back in town and living. he made up and excuse and she let him get away with it even though my friend saw him coming down from that same direction that evening too and she didn't ask him about that. another friend says he saw their vehichle parked at this girls trailer late in the night but theres no proof of that so i never told my sister. what do you think? i think that she'll stay with him even if she has proof. what would you do? if i ever found out my husband was cheating i would be out the door.
1 response
• United States
4 Apr 07
I know this might sound wrong but you could always spy on him and see exactly what he is doing. I would want to know what my husband was up to but I would want proof. If I were you I would take pictures of him if you catch him doing something no good and show them to her. If you don't want her to know it was you spying then develop the pictures and mail them to her. I think it is easy to forgive something when there is no cold hard evidence that the person you are with has done something wrong but when there is proof, there can be no denial.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
5 Apr 07
i've thought about spying on him, but i have 2 small kids at home, i babysit a 1 year old and i'm 6 months pregnant lol, kind of makes it hard for me to go spy.