How do you deal with the relationship with your husband

China
April 6, 2007 7:54am CST
How do you deal with the relationship with your husband?a friend?or a work partner?or a lover?Would you like to talk with your husband when you have a trouble in your work?And you will ask for help to your husband when you have a problem in your life? Usually I prefer share in the happiness with my husband to the misery.I am afraid of bring trouble to my husband.Maybe it's wrong for me.I should share in everything with my husband.What do you think?
7 responses
@Sicantik (706)
6 Apr 07
I always open with my husband, he is my best friend so I tell him everything. It also help our relationships because we both live far away from our family so the only thing that keep us together is being honest with each other...xx
@rdorton (83)
• United States
6 Apr 07
I find that I share more of the happinest with my husband and share my worries nad troubles with my girlfrinds. I guess I just don't think that my husband has the same compassion to deal with certain things. Men tend to get upset and want to handle things with aggression instead of just letting them go. I find that alot of times I just want to vent to some one and then I'm done with the problem. But I don't want any hard feelings. I think that women can listen and let things go faster than a man, or at least some men.
@foogirl (87)
• United States
6 Apr 07
I tell my husband EVERYTHING. He is the only person that can calm me and center me when I'm upset, mad, sad, whatever. He's a good listener and already knows not to give advice...just listen. I think that you should share your troubles with your hubby too lilbaby. Not only will it relieve you of some of your stress just talking about it, but it will probably bring you guys closer together. After all, your husband did promise to love, honor, cherish, yada yada yada, right??? ;) Good luck!!
@Erinlpx (179)
• United States
6 Apr 07
I don't know that I "deal with" or "handle" the relationship at all. It just is. I share my good news and my bad news with him - if I'm upset, he deserves to know why, and if I'm happy, he deserves to share in that with me. As for "right" or "wrong" that is something only you can decide. Your husband is your life partner - in ALL things, not just the good ones.
@lucy67 (819)
• China
6 Apr 07
you are so considerate but when you have problem, who do you turn to if you do not tell your hubby your trouble. as for me, i share both happiness and trouble with him.
• India
6 Apr 07
I dont know why people think that close relationships like husband-wife, etc needs to be 'handled'. These relationships are related to souls. And somebody dont love their partner from heart and soul then they need to 'handle' the relationship which is not good for the relationship in long run as it will lack the emotional bonding.
• United States
6 Apr 07
My husband and I have a great relationship. We keep no secrets. I think you should share the good and bad. That what a relationship is.