10 Apr 07
how sad it is really if someone closed to you has betrayed you. it really hurts and you wanted him to get lost or out of your way. these are but my initial reactions if my friends or loved ones did betray me. but i won't got that far of cursing him. probably just forget him a while and give time to heal the wounds. then perhaps after a while, if he asks sorry or forgiveness, then talking to him and settling the differences may help in anyway to rebuild relationship. but of course this depends on the situation. if he really was sorry for what he did, then forgiveness will rule and give him second chance. i know we all make mistakes but it's not an excuse.
8 Apr 07
I would definitely feel angry and sad. One thing that I will do for sure is never to trust that same person again. Being betrayed by someone you trust and love the most is really painful. It's like ripping off your chest literally. I ope this won't happen to me.
• United States
8 Apr 07
When my best friend, the person that I loved and trusted more than anyone [except for my daughter] betrayed me, I felt horrible. I was in shock. She turned into a person that I didn't even know, where did she hide that? And how had she managed to hide her true self from me for 15 years? It's not like we had just met and become best friends, like sisters, family, blood, we were going to grow old together as friends, always going to be there for each other, no, we had known each other for many years. But I was tired of how one sided our relationship had become, it was almost always me who was the one who provided everything and I had begun withdrawing that, hoping that it would make our relationship stronger because it would be on a more equal footing. Nope, doesn't work that way. When the free ride is over, so is the friendship. At least that's how it was for me. It's been over 2 years now and sometimes I still miss her but I could never be friends with her again because she couldn't be trusted. And her behavior since SHE decided we were not going to be friends anymore has been very bad. She even got into an arguement with my mother in a store when they saw each other. They always hated each other. Oh well, life is too short to worry about that junk! I am trying to put her behind me as a learning experience because the friend that I thought that I had all those years never really existed anyway.
8 Apr 07
I experienced it a lot!!!!! I am betrayed by my friend,Gf, and bestfriend! Lets start with my friend! when the time that I have a very big problem about our relationshiip of my gf! I consult my friend! coz i know he/she can help me! I told him about what weve fight about my gf! In the next day my classmates are quarelling me, because I'm busted! But that is not true, they said that my friend told them that idea!SO in that day, Im very lonely, coz i don't expect that my realfriend will betray me like it!I also experince from my gf and B.friend! But Its a long story!!!