brokenhearted!! how do u deal with them?
April 8, 2007 4:03am CST
Do u have friends who's heart has been broken with their past relationship? How do u deal with them? They seem to lose their trust to everybody... They tend to build a wall around them.. What if u fell inlove with that friend of yours... but he doesnt want you to go through that wall he built around him? he doesnt believe that u are falling for him... Please I need your opinion!
8 Apr 07
I have once fell for a really nice and good looking guy whom has immuned himself to love and attention that he consistently gets. before i got to know him, he already has this wall built around him and it made it really difficult for me to get around it. I believe I tried hard and long enough to get in touch with his innerself and emotions. We started off as friends of friends. As i got to know him and got closer to him, I even had a relationship with him at one point when we were both vulnerable after drinks(never regretter that though). After that day, he starting pouring his heart out to me. Each day went by and we started taking one another like a real couple. i cooked for him, we stayed at one anothers place. our parents knew abt us and all. I totally fell flat on my face in love with him. However in my heart i knew that he would not let go of his feelings for him. True enough when i spoke to him abt it one day, he admitted that he still has reservations abt starting off a real relationship with me. From then my heart fell and i didnt pursue it again. i left it to fate to decide whether we should be together. as time passed, i woke myself up to tell myself that this guy, after much talking and pro conselling sessions with him, he still didnt wanna barge, so i moved on. and today i'm happy as a bird with my new partner and husband. I realised that it is difficult to hope that someone will change for you and what you have done. time is a factor even if you deny.