Honor others with Closure

You are right Cd. I really relate on how you feel, because I have the same situation. Even for me, sometimes I find it annoying those kind of questions or teasing. I hope they would respect my decision and present state of mind. And like you, I would like that chapter of my life closed and sealed before I start a new one. To be able to savor a new beginning without worrying about the past. To start as new. And you have a point in making your intentions clear to your in laws. I salute you for that, because it takes a lot of courage to do it. I'll pray for the succes of your endeavor and to the new start of your life. More blessings for you my friend! (^^,)

It is really challenging for a mother like you to have your marriage annuled. With your daughter in consideration, I know that it will be very hard for you. But things should come to an end. Maybe the relationship you have with your husband has no hope of survival. That is life. Sometimes, not all things go right. We need to experience the hardship for us to be stronger in life. the respect should alwys be present to other people, may it be your in-laws or not. I admire the attitude of yours towards other people. Only few has that thinking and I'm glad you're one of them. I know that in time, you can tell it to them because that will only set you free. It is not easy to do but I know you can do it. They will understand it for sure, as long as you'll state your point accurately. Just be strong for your daughter. Annulment is not an easy process for it will take you to a more challenging phase of your life. Good luck and God bless.

I admire your consideration for others. I am just wondering, why you are having an annulment? You look so young. Marriages do get rough. Its like a house, when a lightbulb gets broken you don't go out buying a new house but rather replacing just the lightbulb, right? But I do agree with you that before opening another chapter in your life, closure has to come first. Be at peace with yourself and learn to love yourself more. You will not be able to share your love and yourself to anyone else if there are still pieces of you that are missing... Good luck... Msg me if you need a friend... :)

I think it is very good of you to want to show your respect to your in-laws like that. Although it may be hard for you to tell them, I think it is important for you to do so. I agree that it is only fair for you to wait until your marriage has been annuled before you begin another relationship - up until that point you are still married and I don't think that's a good way to start a new relationship.