do u believe in destiny

@aissha (2036)
India
April 11, 2007 5:29am CST
i started as a young brilliant child and my parents had lots of hopes with me but something happened like i suffered from allergic asthma for 10 yrs and i was almost sick all the time ,sometime on homeopathy or modern medicine i don't remember a single day without medicine from 92-2002,the year i got married ,after that i am healthy as a normal people are ,no asthma at all but i hv new responsiblities in life hv a lil girl and i can't leave her ,so now i don wanna go out for job ,so i believe it was in my destiny to be ahousewife or i'd hv been healthy in those crucial yrs. do u think like that?
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@Arkento (54)
• India
11 Apr 07
ya i belive in destiny..i think evryone shuld..sometimes u get those things which is impossible without destiny....u can do the hardwork only..but without destiny cant achieve anything....
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@lanshang (139)
• China
11 Apr 07
the more i experience, the stronger belife i have in destiny.why did we meet these persons instead of those ones? why i was born to this family but not that one?why it happened finally no matter how hard i try to avoid it?...
@aissha (2036)
• India
11 Apr 07
u are right my friend and in my personal experience it is hard to avert destiny ,ultimately u face it but that should not stop us from working in our life .
• India
2 Nov 10
yes, I also think like that.. but you have to try your best... to what ever you want or to get in life.. the rest is destiny....
@Hayley_N (526)
• Argentina
24 Jul 08
You already know the truth. You explained it very well in the question. Fate and destiny are two different things. Everyone was created in God's image to fulfill God's calling on their lives. Few do it because it takes faith and perseverance. There is passages in the old Test. that says God doesnt even know what decisions we are going to make. God has a plan(destiny) but anyone can choose to be a part of it. Some people have an inner knowing that they are called to do more with their lives but they have a choice, settle or use their measure of faith that God gave them to use their talents wisely and "bear fruit".
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
not really because for me we're the ones making our own destiny..many people believed that things are bound to happen..yes, this will only be true if you'll just sit in one corner and do nothing..
@18101989 (700)
• India
12 Apr 07
well firstly i did not believed in this kind of thing but when i heared many of people saying about destiny my opinion is tilted but today also i do not fully believe in destiny it is sure that we are the one who make our life good or bad and we are the one who has the ability either to build or to destroy our future
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
no id rather dont believe in destiny coz its you who make things happen in your life. that's it.
@0888ip (269)
• Romania
12 Apr 07
I like to believe in all things.. destiny is one in which i have a strong belief but i understand too the persons which say that they make their destiny with their hands..
• Malaysia
12 Apr 07
i believe.. i believe how successful a person can be.. is all depends on destiny... i believe the god have already set which role we're going to play.. we're the actors on thew world stage :) .. so.. i do believe
@subha12 (18453)
• India
12 Apr 07
sometimes I'm bold enough to think, what is destiny? i can make my own destiny and choose it myself. But from childhood itself, luck has never favoured me. In everything, be it small or big things, i'm always unlucky. So I have started to believe that its destiny which is playing this game with me.
• United States
12 Apr 07
I somewhat believe in destiny. I mean i think it's human species destiny to rule the earth but like "our destiny to meet eachother" none of that.
@GuateMom (1411)
• Canada
12 Apr 07
I don´t believe in destiny as fate. In my humble opinion, you choose what your life will turn out to be, although there will certainly be factors (like your asthma) that affect our decisions. For example, you have chosen to stay at home with your little girl, which is wonderful, but you could also have chosen to leave her with a sitter or in a daycare, it wasn´t destiny that made you stay home.
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
Yes I do believe in destiny, what is bound to happen to you. but i believe also that destiny is not just one single path. it has many paths. like if you choose to live this way, this would be your destiny. like there's a corrsponding destiny to every decision you make.
@sallyxu126 (1185)
• China
12 Apr 07
I believe destiny . I try to change my life for several times , and I worked hard for somethings ,but I could not get what I want . Sometimes , I don't lead all my effort on something ,but I got paid . I don't know what other one think,but I really believe destiny. We can work hard,but to some extent , we could not change destiny . Anyway , try your best ,then wait for your destiny.
@shamito (21)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
people create their own destiny. example If you need to study you will study if there is no money you cant study. But if you pursue that you wanted to finish your degree what will you do? wait for the destiny? well of course may be not you will do anything just to finish what you have dreams in your mind. So I dont believe on destiny..
@Makoy1983 (1085)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
yes. but we create our own destiny. destiny is usually the results of our present actions
• India
12 Apr 07
Yes, i do believe in destiny. And i believe that everything that happens in our life is written before and it will happen no matter what we do or what we say. No one can escape from his/her fate. IF a thing has to happen it will happen, if you like it or not. So, i think that its better to just forget everything that happens and start to live in the present.
• United States
11 Apr 07
I don't believe in destiny...but I do believe in what ever happens, happens.
@navtech (1776)
• India
11 Apr 07
I fully believe in destiny because I was studying for Associated Company Secretaries I could not sit for examination because I had fever and was unable to get up from the bed. I had to be hospitalised. From that day onwards I could not study properly and further my education. Many good things also happened in my life. Most of the good things I never expected would happen. Fate plays most important part in our life. Our intelligence is helpful but we should have fate to have that intelligence. The other name of fate is destiny.
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Yes i do believe that there is a plan for each of us in our life.Only God knows what that plan is.I think that what ever the plan is you will reach that goal in your life somewhere.right now you are doing what was meant for you to do.When you are doing what you feel,just keep doing it until that plan changes.You are a housewife taking care of your lettle girl..When the time comes for things to change it will come and you just go with the flow.