A little Story

By Gabs
@gabs8513 (48805)
United Kingdom
April 11, 2007 6:59pm CST
Here is a little Story before I go to bed. I guess you will all wonder why I have written this, well I was inspired by a response I gave tonight It is to let all you Parents out there know that it is a Miracle to be a Parent, specially when you where told that you would never be able to have Kids. This Story is true A young Girl aged 16 gets rushed into hospital after collapsing in severe Pain. She suffered these Pains for many years and always put it down to Stomach Cramps. They insert a Camera in the Girls Stomach, to see what is going on. When the Girl wakes up, she is informed that she will never have Kids due to her Ovaries being damaged. She knows why they are damaged. Due to being raped by a Family Member at the age of 5 for 2 years and then again at the age of 15, she had never told anyone as she was told she would be sent away. And she still believed that no one will believe her and she will be sent away. The Doctor asks her and she denies it. The Doctor does not believe her but says no more. The Girl leaves the Hospital trying to come to terms that she will never have what she wants so much. 3 years later she gets married. She was married 2 years and has an early stage Miscarriage she did not know she was pregnant. She then falls pregnant again 6 months after that. This time she does know and she is scared. She is scared as she knows she will loose this Baby. She doesn't. She goes to 6 Months and then problems start but she holds on with all her strength as she is about to have what she always wanted and the Doctor said she can never have. She gives Birth to her first Child, a Healthy Boy. 2 years after that she takes a chance as she would like a second one. She falls pregnant again, but the Problems are there from Day one. Bleeding, Pains, threats of Miscarriage, she fights and she holds on. 4 weeks late she has another Child, a little Girl, but the Baby was not breathing, they rushed her to a breathing Machine. The Woman is scared that she will loose this Baby, please God don't let me loose her I will not ask for more, she thinks to herself. The Baby starts Breathing. So after being told she will never have Kids she has the greatest Gift on earth, 2 lovely Children, that she promises to love and Cherish all her Life. She never ever tried for another one, as she was told she would never carry another one. She is not bothered as she knows how lucky she is to have the 2 Treasures that she has got. To this Day they are still her world and her Life and the best Children a Mum could ask for. So you see there is such a thing as a Miracle, so please love your Kids and think of the People who can't have Kids and so much want them, This Girl thought she would never have Children and the best thing happened to her,she was given 2 lovely Kids
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38 responses
@mel_87 (859)
12 Apr 07
it helps to have 2 wonderful children when you have the best mum in the world like i do. love you loads mum xxx
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@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Awwwwwww My Sweetheart Thank you and I have the 2 most wonderful Children in this world I might not have money but I am the richest Woman I have to loving and wonderful Children, I have loving and caring Friends, I have someone that loves and cares for me, no money can ever beat that
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@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Awwwwwww My Sweetheart Thank you and I have the 2 most wonderful Children in this world I might not have money but I am the richest Woman I have to loving and wonderful Children, I have loving and caring Friends, I have someone that loves and cares for me, no money can ever beat that I love you to very much Sweetheart xxxxxxxxx
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@weemam (13389)
21 Apr 07
Gabs money can buy a lot pal but it could never buy the love and the closeness you can have with your family xxxxx
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• Australia
12 Apr 07
Gabs we see your loving mother's heart here and the enormous love you have for your two precious children and the great joy they are to you. Your two have responded to your love and they are copy books of you, giving back the love that you gave them. You have had many problems, but you have the greatest treasure any woman can ever have: the love of her children and the satisfaction of knowing you have done your best for them. God bless you.
@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Thank you Cloud yes my 2 Children are all I ever wanted them to be and my Pride and Joy Love and Hugs to you
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• Australia
17 Apr 07
Thank you Gabs. Love and hugs to you too. You deserve them.
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@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
12 Apr 07
i am so happy for this girl because i know what it means o have children after you where told you never can. i had 2 miscarriages too and after some serious health issues i was lucky to have my 3 children. yes miracle happen lots when we believe, and we as parents shold all be blessed and proud of our kids. they are a big gift and for me a big wonder. i love them so much and take care of them how much as im able to. thank you for sharing this with us lil sis ;-)
@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Yes Sis they do and I am so happy that you have had this Miracle to Love and Hugs to you
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@ESKARENA1 (18304)
12 Apr 07
wow gabs that is a miracle. I honestly know what you mean i just assumed i would never be blessed with children after being raped as a child regularly for about 8 years and also never spoke about it. Although i still have physical problems they began to fade with the joyous arrival of both my beautiful girls. The mental scars will stay a life-time but i suvived and have two beautiful, powerful and indipendent young women in my life as a result blessed be
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@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Yes EsKaren it will stay with you for the rest of your life Sweet and I am glad you have survived it to I really am hugs to you dear Friend xx
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@rhinoboy (2129)
12 Apr 07
What a heartwarming story, Gabs. It reminds me of how lucky I am to have my beautiful little girl.
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@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Yes Rhino and make sure you Treasure her all the time and give her Love
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@charms88 (7546)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
Oh gabs dear, that was a very nice and inspiring story. I'm lucky to have been blessed with two girls without any problems and complications at all. I know there are a lot of mothers out there who are undergoing so much pain and troubles just to have a child. Thank you for sharing this one. :)
@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Yes Charms there is and they certainly love and cherries the Miracles they have You know as well as I do that being the Gift of having Children is something that you treasure for the rest of your Life.
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@Kristien (78)
• China
12 Apr 07
I love kids,too, but I'm single. How I hope to be a mother!!!
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@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
When the time comes you will be never give up
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@mummymo (23709)
12 Apr 07
Tears are running now! What a sad , difficult time this girl must have endured through her childhood and again after losing her first baby. How hard it must have been to hold on to hop, to pray for a miracle for the two children she gave birth to and raised! This and the fact that she did and still does love them so much is testament to her courage, determination and big, big heart! Your point is well taken honey - I may complain about my kids but I am grateful for them, even when they are at their worst and they know I will always love them no matter what! I understand some of the girls pain as I had several early miscarriages either side of my eldest and had to have fertility treatment for my youngest, which almost didn't work! I thank god for blessing me with 2 gorgeous, loving, intelligent children but some days I do ask him why he has to give me everything I ask for!!!! Thank you for sharing this wonderful story and making us think and feel and empathise! Love ya honey - Be good! xxx
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@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Mo everyone complains about their Children lol as they can be little Devils but you also love them no matter what and that is what counts Sweet The Love for them In good and bad times you love them and treasure them Love you to xxx
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• United States
12 Apr 07
Wow that was great to read. Of course I cried. I have two kids and 1 Grandbaby and another on its way. I cherish my kids, they are what keeps me going. Thank you for such a great story. Lilac54
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@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Hi Lilac Yes and I know that you treasure them I can tell by the way you have responded You are welcome Hugs to you
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@Grandmaof2 (7604)
• Canada
12 Apr 07
You are right it is a Miracle to be a parent, but even more so in your case. I'm glad this has had a good ending and I hope everyone who tends to not be a good parent could read this, it pulled at my heart strings and I was always a good mom. I know what my little grandchildren mean to me and the love I hold for my own daughter. I wish you well always...
@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Thank you Grandmaof2 and yes I hope so to as I have come across few People in my Life who used to say they wished they never had their Kids and it used to make me mad as Kids are precious and if they did not want them why have them? Love to you xxx
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@raydene (9875)
• United States
12 Apr 07
Honey Angel What a wonderful story. The doctors are not always right because they don't know what She(God) knows. Just when we think we know whats what our world gets a quick spin.. I'm sure glad you got your sweet Mel and her big brother.. I'm just sorry you had to go through the rest..That part makes me mad as hell! I love you Sweetheart,You're the best! xoxo
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@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Ray dearest Friend I know and it still causes Pain uneasiness bad dreams and tears even after all these years But a lot more has been going on my Life but I got through it and I always will I hope. I love you to Love and Hugs to you xxxx
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@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
12 Apr 07
Oh Gabs what a sad story. But in the end it turned just fine. What a lucky woman she was to have 2 kids after all that. I do believe in mircales you just have to believe with all your heart in something and it will come true. I guess your getting ready to go to sleep so I will say good night sleep tight and dont let the bed bugs bite.LOL Lots of love and hugs to you.
@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Yes Terry she was one lucky Woman and she knows it I have just got back up lol but yes I had gone to bed by the time you wrote this Love and Hugs to you
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@villageanne (8579)
• United States
12 Apr 07
I do appreciate my kids. I had 4 miscarriages and then had to have a hysterectomy. We were very fortunate to have the two beautiful daughters that we were blessed with. Each miscarrige that we had took a part of us with it. We do cherish our children and now we have two grandchildren. We are blessed.
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@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Yes Anne Sweet you are very blessed and you deserve it to Hugs to you
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@winterose (39913)
• Canada
12 Apr 07
what a lovely story, I am so happy this woman was able to conceive. God is good, that is all I can say.
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@0888ip (270)
• Romania
12 Apr 07
We must believe in miracles... the story you said is a miracle..
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• United States
12 Apr 07
This was a beautiful true story to share. It will show people that there are still miracles happening today. It will also show parents as you intended to treasure the children that they have. Children are such precious gifts from God. Even when we get upset with them that should always be in our mind. Thank you for sharing that with us.
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@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Yes they should no matter how often you get upset and angry with them it is part of them and it is the Love that counts and love forgives They don't just give you Pain they give you love and trust
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• United States
12 Apr 07
Yes, they give unconditional love. That is showed when a child who is being abused is asked about it will defend the parent strongly. They love very strongly and try to protect their parent. I used to work in a place they would bring children that had been abused. It was just a stepping stone until they got situated in a foster home. But when these children were asked who had done this they would clam up. When they finally got to the point that they would open up the things they would say is they didn't mean to or I didn't want to get them in trouble. I worked there going on three years and it was very sad to see how protective these kids were of their parents. They were getting abused and they were putting a shield up to protect their parents. The thing about it is these kids still trust their parents to take care of them.
@crackhead (1826)
• India
12 Apr 07
Kids - 2 lovely kids all i would like to have.
First of all Thanks for sharing such a nice story i rather say incident. That clearly depicts how much you love your kids and how much one should love their children. Great to know that she had 2 lovely kids even after being told that she won't be having any kids. I am not yet married but still i say i will love my kids so much. They are the ones who keep us happy all the life long. I really hate child molestation i have read many such cases in news papers and had seen many on television channels. Oh God i don't know if at all there is an end for this or not. But i condemn them with my whole heart. Miracles do happen god is there and he will take care of us as well as our kids and parents. May God bless all the Kids.:)
@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Yes Kids do make us Happy in good and bad Times even when they are Adults There is pain and there upset while you try to guide them but the love is stronger and it is certainly worth it when I now look at my 2 I could not ask for better.
@twils2 (1821)
• United States
12 Apr 07
Whenever I read a story like this it brings a tears to my eyes, That after all this girl has been thru she still got her 2 kids. In cases such as this you know there has to be a God. Thank you for shareing the story and God bless.
@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Yes there does and there are certainly Miracles
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• Malaysia
12 Apr 07
wow.. this is a nice story.. but.. what a bad family member she has.. gosh.. such members are so intolerable... they put a bad memory in her.. luckily did she manage to stand up again.. and now.. hopefully.. she will be a happy mother for the rest of her life :)
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@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Believe she is and will be for as long as she is around
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@jc_star10 (954)
• Indonesia
12 Apr 07
That's beautiful story. Remind me, that we should never give up anything that we really want. We are given by God to struggle in this life, that means that everything that we are going through right now, have its meaning. It's probably painful life at first, but in the end happiness will come to you after all. Thanks for the sweet story, and how that girl almost give up, but in the end she end up with two lovely kids.
@gabs8513 (48805)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 07
Yes she did and she is very grateful for that to
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