How to forget your first love?

Philippines
April 12, 2007 12:26am CST
I really have a hard time forgiving/forgetting my ex. How do you guys moved on? How do I get Over it?
7 responses
@p0wcheee (97)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
I think the best way to get over someone is to surround yourself whom you know loves you very veyr much. It is hard when you are just alone. And yes, pray. Get a good closure and let go. It's even harder when you knew he was taking it just fine when you are living in hell. :s
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• Malaysia
12 Apr 07
Give yourself some time. time really can heal the hurt you had now. Dun give too much pressure to yourself to forgot your ex as it could really make you depress. Relax. Go out more oftenly with your friend and meet more new friends out there. you never know you could find a better partner who is far far better than your ex. Believe me, as time goes by, your missing toward your ex will gradually decrease. Have a Brand new life now!
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@hartnsoul (558)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
another piece of advice dear, face your past without regret, handle your present with confidence, prepare for the future without fear... Keep the faith and drop the fear, don't believe your doubts and never doubt your beliefs... Life is wonderful and you are too... :)
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@sallyxu126 (1185)
• China
12 Apr 07
Don't try to forget in a short time. If you alway try to forget him in a short time, it is hard to forget. No matter how deep he hurt you, you still have good time with him before. So when you loss love, don't too upset. At least, you have a good time before. Start a new love is also a good idea,but never start a new love to forget the last one.
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@euqaj18 (252)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
Just make your life busy.. so you would forget your first love... I guess so...not sure really
@hartnsoul (558)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
Dang! That is quite a hard thing to do... Although I've learned that letting go and moving on are two of a kind... First, learn to love yourself more than ever. Moving on means you're still in the 'love' feel but in denial that you still got the feelings. To get over though takes quite a while... Enjoy your time with friends and don't look for another love right away... hang out with friends both single and attached and jsimply enjoy life. :)
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@ArienKing (4647)
• India
12 Apr 07
i have to admit it takes some time.. but you will. eventually get over it.. and u learn from the mistakes that you made/happend and you move on and find someone better.. u end up happier Find your soul mate and marry them.. Date and meet other people.. Make sure you are an adult though before you marry:) Over time you will forget them i feel.