What So You Fear the Most in Your Marriage?

@2855994 (127)
United States
October 19, 2006 2:15pm CST
Will you be more afraid if your spouse was involved in a "one night stand" or an "emotional affair?"
5 responses
@busymommy (261)
• United States
19 Oct 06
Neither! My husband is either working, home with us, or in the garage with his race car. He wouldnt do anything to take time away from that silly car, so an affair would just never happen!
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@2855994 (127)
• United States
20 Oct 06
Sounds like your husband's other woman is his "race car"! Is it an emotional affair or a one night stand. (lol!)
@Victoria7 (1242)
• Spain
19 Oct 06
An emotional affair of course. A one night stand wouldn´t make him want to leave me. (Well I would hope not!) A one night stand is like scratching an itch I guess as opposed to emotions. I´m not saying I wouldn´t leave HIM for doing that, just comparing the 2.
@2855994 (127)
• United States
19 Oct 06
I would fear the "emotional" affair also. It is hard for someone to break away from another person whenever thier heart and sould is involved. A "one night stand" is just what it is, a "one night stand". An emotional affair can lead to a divorce.
@Victoria7 (1242)
• Spain
19 Oct 06
Ultimately they both lead to divorce - it depends if the affair is found out and how much it affects the relationship. But if one partner meets someone and prefers them to his current partner, the marriage might not have been sufficiently strong in the first place.
• United States
21 Oct 06
I wouldn't want either to happen. But, I think the emotional affair I fear more because, there is more of an attachtment (love). God Bless
@2855994 (127)
• United States
21 Oct 06
An emotional affair can lead to your husband or wife leaving you. I know of a case where two people started out as good friends (male/female). They had a lot in common and talked often on the phone and in e-mails. It was not long before they met for lunch one day, (he traveled six hours to see her), and ended up in bed together. They both knew that it was wrong and tried to break it off, but they became more involved with each other. Now, they are talking about leaving thier spouses so that they can be together. They were both married to abusive people. So, an emotional affair is more dangerous. Sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with.
• India
27 Oct 06
their can be no question of being afraid with "one night stand" such things do happen in life but the "emotional affair" is a different ball game, a game you are drawn into without realizing you got to play against two.
• India
21 Oct 06
myself..