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By DanaN21
@DanaN21 (177)
United States
October 19, 2006 2:16pm CST
I Am 20 Years Old. I Have Been Engaged Since July. My Fiancee Spends Alot Of Time Chatting Online On Myspace.com To Tons Of Girls That He Says He Went To School With. He Also Says, This Is My Ex So An So. Should I Be Okay With Him Being Online For 5 or 6 Hours A Day Talking To These Girls On Myspace.Com Cause As Of Right Now. Really I Am Not Okay With This.
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@charmedone (593)
• United States
19 Oct 06
I don't think he should be sitting on the comp talking to other girls for long hours. I sit at my comp a lot during the day but not to talk to other men. Me and my husband are on myspace too and he had some female friends who would respond to his bulletins and tell him what they wanted to do with him. If you know what I mean. I confronted him about it and he said they were just joking around. I trust him but I am a very jealous person. I don't have a problem with him being on there and he doesn't have a problem with me being up there. But I would have a problem with it if he was just sitting up there for hours talking to other women. And if you are not ok with it you should tell him. And if he loves and respects you he will quit doing it. And I would really have a problem with it too if he was talking to any ex girlfriends b/c thats just disrespectful. Its like I told my man I can't stop other women from wanting him. But I can have a say in who he talks too if I don't like it or them. I would respect him if he asked me not to be friends with certain other men. If it made him uncomfortable.
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@DanaN21 (177)
• United States
27 Oct 06
Thanks For The Response. I Totally Agree With You. I Am Kind Of A Jealous Person. We Both Also Have Myspace.com And We Have Talked About This. I Am Like You And I Spend Time Online Through The Day But Its Usually On Mylot Or Something Like That. I Dont Really Talk To Any Other Guys Because I Have No Reason To. He Really Has Not Been Talking To Alot Of Girls Here Lately. Now He Just Sits Online Looking Up Wrestling Stuff Because He Is Training To Be A Professional Wrestler. I Dont Have A Problem With That, But I Dont Believe He Should Stay Online From 4pm Until 11 Pm Doing This Stuff Because During Those Hours I Am Able To Get Online Maybe Once Or Twice And Usually Its Just To Check My Mail.
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@candaceb87 (1362)
• Canada
30 Oct 06
you are totally right and you definetly deserved best response for that. you shouldn't have to put up with that how would he like it if you were talking to a bunch of ex boyfriends or something?!!!
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@melody1011 (1663)
• India
6 Nov 06
Yeah, you are right. You do have a right to tell him what you feel and if you are not comfortable you should tell him. Since you are engaged you should clear this up now so that the problem does not pop up in the future.
@lyndseymomof1 (121)
• United States
30 Oct 06
go on there and look at his profile it its not private...see if he says he is taken, if its private make up a profile and add him. send messages to him pretending to be another girl. Catch him in the act. I love myspace and i do spend alot of time talking to all my old friends, but thats it. My boyfriend knows that i wont do anything with them and he has met them all! Just see what happends!
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@sahils29 (129)
• India
27 Oct 06
i totallt agree with charmesdome....if you dont like him doing all that you should tell him so ...he will understand and stop...if he is the right person for you...he will surely listen to you and respect your feelings....marrying someone is a big decision...u cant just keep playing with marriage like a trial game.....you have to have a good start and with the right person....so tell him what you feel...he will understand
@surya3331 (693)
• India
28 Oct 06
yes you are right they should marry when they are matured enough.
@staceystew (472)
• United States
30 Oct 06
Honestly I dont think it is right! And again Honestly I think Guys are hard to trust.
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