if u will have to chose between a child or a wife?

As I am the women I would want my partner to pick The babies life. I have had a chance to live a great life. I believe that the child deserves the chance to experience life for itself.

a very difficult question.i feel a partner should chose his wife out of his love and concern for her.any wife would also do the same thing for her partner.

since i'm the wife, i'd let him choose the baby because i know how much my husband want to be a father. there was one time i asked him this question and he said that he'd rather have me than the baby. because if i get well, we can try again to have another baby. he will be a lot happier if his child can have a mother to look after him. besides, when his child grows up, he'll leave him to and he'll have his own family. he will be left alone if he doesn't have me.

I would choose to save the wife over the kid. There are more benefits to choosing the wife compared to saving the kid. The kid will understand why it is sacrificed and I think he agrees to it too. By saving the adult, there is a possibility of having another child and if this is not the first child, the children before this kid will have a mother to take care and attend to. If I were to save the kid, what happens to the other kids and this one? They would be left without a mother to take care and nuture them. I may have to find someone else to take her place and there may be future problems with the steps and in-laws. Why subject myself to such inconvenience when I have a wife to settle everything :P

I think i will choose my wife but not the baby. This is because i don't want the baby having a single parent family later. when the baby growth up, they will feel depress when seeing other friend have their own mother. the baby might feel depress afther that. Somo more, i can't guarantee my child will take care of me when i am old becasue the child will have their own life and thing to do and concern later. i choose wife becasue at least i know now, there is someone beside me and sharing my life. And we might the baby again later because the medical technology is keeping advance day by day.

As much as i love my children i will always pick my wife over them. I married her to be my lifelong partner and best friend. We are one and nobody comes before her, other than god ;)