Are Your Friends Mostly Guys or Women?

United States
April 13, 2007 6:37pm CST
I know that everyone has at least a few friends, so for the most part I think this will be easy for everyone to answer. So the question is do you have more friends that are guys or are your friend mostly women? Do you know why there is more of one gender than the other? I would have to say for me that's it about equal. I don't really think that I have more of one gender than the other, as long as I can get along with someone and have things in common that make them fun to be around then that's all that really matters to me.
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• United States
1 May 07
I'm friends mostly with women. Not that I mind or anything, I really get along with women more than I do men. I just find most men rather immature and because of that among other things, I don't connect with men well. I talk to guys, sure, but I really don't consider them great friends or anything, they're mostly some time friends that I just talk to on some occasions. I like being around women more. I can talk to them better, I have more in common with them. It's just a better fit for me.
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• Indonesia
1 May 07
Hm actually my friends mostly women, heheehhehe..if we have many women friends so we can have more girl on our list..
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• United States
14 Apr 07
I think that I have an equal amount of both. As long as they are fun and we get along fine then they are my friend.
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@shorva (923)
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
I'm a girl but I'm one of the boys. I don't know why I get along with men more than women. But my closest friends are girls. There's just a couple of them. My friends at work are all men! I don't hang out with any women there. I tried to but I just don't seem to get along, it's kinda weird but I'm use to it.
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@bmodina (241)
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
i have few friends friends some guys and some are women, sometimes i feel bored and lonely coz times change and they already married, and im still a single guy and looking new friends, and i miss my old friends now.
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@urbangirl (1461)
• Australia
14 Apr 07
I have slightly more women friends than men. I think it's almost even numbers because I work in a very male dominated line of work so inevitably have made many male friends that way. Otherwise, I think it would have been weighted much more toward female friends. I do value my male friends so much though. They are so different to my female friends and we talk about completely different things on a one to one.
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
I have more women friends than men. I am more comfortable with women but when I was in college, I have more men friends than women since we are 13 in the group and there are only 5 girls.
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@lightningMD (5932)
• United States
13 Apr 07
I have more women friends then men. I guess because of ladies group at Church and things like that i just am around more women than men.
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@scarter85 (118)
• United States
14 Apr 07
I usually get along better with males than females but right now most of friends are women. I think because my bf gets mad if I talk to guys even as friends. Also where I work there are about 30 women and only 2 guys.
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
same here. I get along better with guys than women. Women tend to have more hormones and more issues than men.
@lankie (478)
• China
1 May 07
yup,think that does make sense. I think personally it is a good thing to have female friends as well as male friends.
• United States
1 May 07
I am female and I have more guy friends then girls. Because I'm more, not really tomboyish but I don't like getting dressed up all the time or wearing make up or doing my nails and all that. And well most girls just plain annoy me. I mean I have quite a few girlfriends but they are mostly like myself in the fact that they do not like to do all those things. Guys you don't have to worry about being all dressed up just to go out and hang with. You can just toss on a pair of old jeans and a t-shirt and they are cool with it.
@jenskids (99)
• United States
1 May 07
I have more guy friends than women for some reason I just cant get along with women as well I feel more at ease hanging out with the guys.Women for the most part love to talk about each other and I am not into gossip I like to have a few drinks and listen to the nasty jokes guys tell i guess I am strange but I like it
@34momma (13895)
• United States
20 Apr 07
that is a good questions. i think now i have more women friends. yet growing up i had many more guy friends. i think as i grew up i found a better class of women to bring into my life. i still have guy friends, but not hang out guy friends. not that i ever get to hang out but on that rare time i do get a second to myself i am mostly with the ladies
@lucy02 (5017)
• United States
17 Apr 07
Most of my closer friends are women but I have some male friends too. Actually my husband is my closest friend.
• India
15 Apr 07
i get in quickly with gals the ratio is 7:3
• China
14 Apr 07
My friends are mostly guys.We like all in one.We paly and study together.Share any secrets with each other.We're all royal to each other.Girls usually cann't do this i think.That's why i choose guys for my friends.
@lizeri (533)
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
When I was in high school, I am in an all-girls school, and so, my friends are composed of girls. But when I was in college, I am mostly seen together with guys and a "half". But it does not matter to me, as long as we can mingle with each other very well, then everything will be fine.
@gemini1960 (1162)
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
i have more friends of male than women it is very understandable that i tend to have more men since i hangout with them always and besides im a male in the true sense of the word.
• United States
14 Apr 07
I have more female friends. Mainly because when my guy friends get girlfriends,or married,their significant others don't want them to hang out with me. Also, with guy friends who are single,one always ends up liking the other-whether it's the guy,or it's me.So, it just doesn't seem to work for me.Wish it did,but it just hasn't!I guess I can just be more of myself around women,and relate to them more since I have grown up in a household of all women, except my dad, who was raised by only his mom.
• India
14 Apr 07
as i am a boy mostly i have guy and small in women as i am a shy person and i dont wanna to talk to women too much because i hav a problem as i cant speak to awomen i can speak to a guy but i cant with a women it is my fault as i am not going to change my attitude as i have alot of prob as my friend told me that do do but i cant please give me some instruction that i can talk with women aS i can speak to my mother but cant with other .. what i can do ....help me