usa a great , but lonely place

India
April 13, 2007 10:51pm CST
as per my d3esiere i finally reached usa but no one can think what i am feeling about this country , this is a busy place where no one has time for you ...relations change as water found its way ....you cant trust anyone ...but people says its country where one rely on words...its hard to believe ...like shadow disappear similarly your partner too can leave you in the worst condition ..thanks to this country as ruling over whole world as they don't have meaning to word emotional attachment...
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@SageMother (2277)
• United States
14 Apr 07
Many who arrive in the USA find it's nothing like what they have seen on TV. Emotional attachments here change often because people are so mobile and there is a great deal of pressure to work. Things run on schedules and there isn't time to bond with people the way folks do in other countries. If you are from India you might be accustomed to a slower pace. The time a bank opens isn't necessarily a set time but a general hour ...here, things happen according to schedule...the bank opens each day at a specific time. It is a big adjustment for those from places that are more human oriented.
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• India
14 Apr 07
its good that people knmows the importance of time, but it doesnt mean that schedule chjange the realtion of commitments ...like between couple its creazy...schedule and relations ....
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@mssnow (9496)
• United States
15 Apr 07
Yes we do like our schedules :)
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@mssnow (9496)
• United States
14 Apr 07
What part of the US did you go to?? I know certain parts of the country can be a bit colder because they like to get to know a person first. Some people will welcome you with open arms you just have to find them. I am one of those types of people.
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• India
14 Apr 07
Thank you for the response. I live in Chicago,IL, also known as the windy city. So you are right its like freezing cold over here and so are the relations. Peace, swappan
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@mssnow (9496)
• United States
14 Apr 07
I live in Oregon. People are pretty friendly here. Have a nice day. I hope it warms up for you
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