what to say to the man that i am starting to fall in love with

United States
April 14, 2007 10:18am CST
thier is a man that i am starting to fall in love with and i do not know how to tell him. the both of us have been hurt really bad from passed relationships. the both of us are afriad to let anyone close to our hearts. we both have kids and he is really good with mine. i am really good with his. he works two jobs. i am a school bus driver. i do not know how to tell him that i am starting to fall in love with him and i do not know if he feels the same way or not. i do not want to push him away if i tell him. what should i do?
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• Philippines
14 Apr 07
If you know this man for a long time already and he has not yet a given you the impression that he likes you in a different way, I don't think you should tell him as it may break your heart if the response is negative. If he likes you in the way that you are hoping for, then I think he will find a way to tell you. As of now, I think i would be better for you to focus your attention and love on your children.
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• United States
14 Apr 07
the love and attention that my kids get from me is unconditional and can never be replaced and that is not what i am looking for. i want someone that will love me and my kids for what we are and nothing less and nothing more. that is what this man is doing and that is the reason i am falling in love with him.
@rsa101 (13833)
• Quezon City, Philippines
14 Apr 07
If you're not really sure how he feels about you try to be more closer to him and if you don't want to risk you'll have to wait. But if you're an adventurous type you can express it and risks yourself. I have the feeling that the feeling is mutual it's just maybe he's not ready or the feeling is like yours where he also doesn't know if the feeling is mutual.
@magikrose (5424)
• United States
5 Aug 07
What you should do is forget him cause he is married and trying to work things out with his wife.