Hav u been in a broken relationship lately??

April 14, 2007 4:09pm CST
i just broke-up wid this guy...i ve been goin out since 4 months!!! u might think im such a play-gurl....im not! it happend because....i dont knw...!! :( im soo confused!! it hurts...bein all alone (sure i hav ma frends...but they are kinda different arent they?) but wats confusing me most is that i dint even love that guy....i mean yeh he was gr8 n stuff...n i quite liked him...but not LOVE him1!! so y do i feel sad??! its all so weird.... damn i shudnt even be writin this rite nw...but oh wel...dont matter nymore!! :(
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8 responses
@khazeemee (288)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
you are sad because of the emptiness that you're feeling right now, because you've lost him..
@cherhost (1073)
• United States
6 Aug 07
Ok so this is way late to be responding in the manner of why you feel sad. But here is something to think about, it may have not been love but you may have been starting to love him. Love does so many thiings to you that you can not control just like being upset because you guys broke up. Here is another thing, it is hard in general to go through a break up, love or not. You got use to him being around and always had him there... now it is just like quitting smoking cold turkey... it is not there. But I am sure by now you are doing well. I hope so atleast. Just dont let the small stuff get to you. Good luck.
@rouwel23 (1353)
• Philippines
4 Aug 07
i didn't have any broken relationship lately but i did have my share of broken relationships. broken relationship makes you strong.
@kevin88 (48)
• United States
5 May 07
you'll get over it, if your not already. its like when a friend comes over to visit for a week. its great, but its time to go home. once they leave you miss that person and think wow this sucks now. with relationships that empty feeling lasts just a bit longer. and sometimes even longer than that. but boom youll be back on the wagoon soon enough thinking "who"?
@bmodina (241)
• Philippines
15 Apr 07
yeah before i admit it, it hurts, days pass it will be gone, sometimes i dont mind coz i can control my feelings.
@cassidy22 (2975)
• United States
14 Apr 07
If you don't love him, you did yourself AND him a favor by breaking off the relationship. It allows both of you to be open to meet someone you CAN love. But even though you didn't LOVE him, it's still a loss. It was still a relationship, and you are still grieving from the loss of this relationship. And it hurts to hurt someone else. So take some time, it's OK to be sad. But you'll get over it eventually.
• Canada
14 Apr 07
You know maybe just maybe your Heart is telling you that U could do better and want better for yourself !!!!! Your gonna find someone who will knock your socks off that is for sure and when you do it will all fall into place...... you'll see. Besides you look great !!!!!!
• Canada
14 Apr 07
You know maybe just maybe your Heart is telling you that U could do better and want better for yourself !!!!! Your gonna find someone who will knock your socks off that is for sure and when you do it will all fall into place...... you'll see. Besides you look great !!!!!!