Don't you just hate MEAN people?

@eykah13 (437)
Philippines
April 15, 2007 7:01am CST
I'm living my life peacefully, but these mean people think they are so perfect that they tease everything about your imperfections, I want them to ignore, but everytime I do, they are just getting more and more evil. I'm only human, I also get hurt, and it kills me inside what they do, cause I didn't do anything bad to them,. Why not mind their own businesses. They are not helping, they just let you down. Who do they think they are? perfect creatures???
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12 responses
15 Apr 07
Big Hug - Sending you a great big hug
People like this are pathetic, insecure, thoughtless and inconsiderate idiots hun. In order to make themselves feel better, they will denigrate others. Try not to let these idiots bother you too much hun, they simply are not worth it.
@lecanis (16664)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
15 Apr 07
Mean people suck. =( I know a few people like this, that think they are perfect and just go around telling everyone what they're doing wrong all the time. I've learned to live with them fairly well by now. There's someone I work with like this, and I just tell her that she's being unreasonable, and leave it at that. I've found that when you stand up to these people, politely and consistantly, they eventually run out of hot air.
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• United States
15 Apr 07
some people are just scared of what you are. some are jelious and that is the only way they feel better about themselves. some are just plain dumb. some do it to get others around them to think they are cool. there are alot of reasons why people do these things but none of them are right. people can be very mean. try not to letit bother you i kow that is hard. i have the same problem alot of times. i grew up with a mom that looks, statue, clothes, money etc was everything. she was a very shallow person. she looked down on anyone who didnt fit in her so called perfect world. well i didnt fit into it. i was a fat kid, who was a tom boy. she degraded me daily for it. i thought there was something wrong with me. as i got older i relized it wasnt me it was her. no matter what you couldnt make her happy. she was so unhappy with her life that she had to make others around her unhappy too just to make her feel better. to make her feel like she was someone specail. i tell her now when she trys it that ok whatever but at least i am happy you cant say that. or at least i am real and live in this world you live in fantasy land. if you are happy with you then no matter what anyone says you are perfect enough. no one is ever perfect that is just human nature. just be happy and love who you are and keep smiling.
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@eykah13 (437)
• Philippines
15 Apr 07
yeah, It's nice to think that there are still people who love us inspite and despite oh how we look like. Let's just pray for the people to change their bad attitudes. God Bless.. keep smiling.. ^^ God Loves us
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• Philippines
16 Apr 07
You were on the right track when you said that you tried to ignore them. That's the only thing you can do because you can't control the way people think and behave. They best be left alone with their despicable ways and let them learn for themselves that it's not cool to be mean. I'm almost certain that they've encountered people who told them they were mean...so it's up to them if they listen or still think it's okay to be the way they are.
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@kitkat1 (1227)
• Canada
16 Apr 07
Dont feel bad over what these people do even though i know it is hard. It use to really hurt me as well until i understood what these people go through. People like that are usually very insecure about themselves and jealous of the person they are hurting. In order to make themselves feel like a big person they feel they have to belittle people they see as above them or have it better than they feel they have it themselves. Really u have to feel sorry for these people cause they have no life or self esteem.
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@winterose (39921)
• Canada
15 Apr 07
I do dislike mean people and I don't bother with them. Don't associate with them anymore. Tell them you don't like the way they talk to you and you don't have to take it. If they cannot be nice leave you alone.
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@bluewings (3857)
15 Apr 07
I can relate to that.Mean people annoy me too.As far as possible I try to stay away from them,but if they force themselves on me I just let them know I don't enjoy their company.However,being a victim to them is a different thing. While I would ignore it if it's once or twice,but if they make a habit of it then I will put them in their place.In such a situation I don't backout
@mummymo (23709)
16 Apr 07
sweety do not let these type of people upset you! The real problem is they either have been hurt at some point in their life and instead of getting over it they decide to hold on to it and spread it around or they have their own insecurities which they desperately want to hide - thus they pick on others to make themselves feel better! You are better than that sweets - just shrug it off and don't sink to their level! xx
• United States
16 Apr 07
Mean people give life more color. I like them. But not horribly- antisocially mean...I like people who are themselves a little mean, obnoxious and a little spicey.
• United States
16 Apr 07
mean people !! ??? and just hate ? ...oh i just ignore such people they come to you and say do this work and after when you go to them ...they say sorry i cant ....i cant is not the problem the problem is when you can do that work why are you not working !! the world is all about give and take !! .....one must care for the other one if some one had done nice to him or her :( ... and yes it hurts preety bad ...very bad no doubt AT all .....they dont think they are perfect but they just think person helping him is foolish !! :( ....sad question ....!!
@mssnow (9495)
• United States
16 Apr 07
Most people who tease others probably are unsure about themselves. if you have self confidence in your self you can accept everyone for who they are. So, Just tell your self what a poor pitiful person they are that they have to make themselves look good by teasing you. Ignore them. they aren't worth it.
@vanities (11375)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Apr 07
well yeah ..they are very mean! but what makes them do that to you? have you done something wrong with them? i dont think that theya e perfect its jsut that its their attitude! we can help it..its good for you to ignore them totally and by that they will stop and tired of teasing you i guess.