Do You I should Forgive A Very Close Friend that Betrayed Me Twice ?

@321633wy (1795)
United States
April 16, 2007 4:12pm CST
I blamed my self for trusting a firend that completely opposite for i though about here. You know what,she is a good actress and manipulate others ,hence, she is good in convincing people to beleive for what she said...but she act like a good person and very supportive infront of me......It's all fake!
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@Easytime (126)
• Nigeria
18 Apr 07
I want to say that, to err is human but to forgive is divine. God expects us to forgive 70 x 7 times in a day. If you forgive your friends, God will forgive u too. Read Mathew 6:9-25 - The Lord's Prayer. It talks about our relationship with friends and then with God. "Forgive us our tresspasses as we forgive those who tresspass against us". Please forgive again.
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@321633wy (1795)
• United States
18 Apr 07
Thanks Easytime I agree with you as God never want us to be resentful but forgiveful...I will try my best .Good luck and god bless you.
@joven222 (84)
• Philippines
16 Apr 07
True friends are all we need to make our world complete. But we cannot deny the fact that there are people who are only pretending to be good and they will take advantage of our weaknesses. If you are being betrayed in some ways, it does only mean one thing. The friend that you have chosen is not worthy of your friendship. In the question of forgiveness, you can forgive her. If you commit a sin, people are also willing to forgive you. The issue here is not on forgiving but on trusting. You can and you should forgive her, but you can limit or decrease the trust that you have given her. Choose your friends wisely. True friends are indeed hard to find.
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@321633wy (1795)
• United States
16 Apr 07
I agree with you about forgiving others as I hope others to give me a chance if i did something wrong,,,but she hurt so much and she's so wrong to me....I do need sometime to recover my pain before i can forgive her,but the tryst is gone.......
@willfe (149)
• United States
16 Apr 07
Once? Sure. Twice? Nope. I hate to reduce it to simple numbers but it's bad enough that a person betrayed you even once. Once that trust is breached, it's impossible to get back. You gave her one chance to prove herself more than a lying scumbag, and she failed. Ditch her. There are people out there who are actually worth your time; they're just harder to find because they're busy getting screwed by liars and cheats, too.
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@321633wy (1795)
• United States
16 Apr 07
You are absolutely right.The first i forgave her hope to give her a chance and will not do it again.I open my heart once again for her but she dissapointed me again.that's hurt... I really learn a lesson from her,as i can't trust her no more but I 'm not so sure i can forgive her again.......but I hope I do.