Falling inlove with your best friend!
April 16, 2007 10:17pm CST
here is the catch! we started as friends... i'm sure that i'm falling inlove with her! i did not tell her how i feel for her until she then told me that she feel secure and comfortable whenever we are together and she started tellin me that she wants me to be her bestfriend! ofcourse, i accepted it because i wanted to be more closer to her heart! and just the other night, i felt that i need to tell her how much i really love her! and i did! her reactions were positive... she only then told me that maybe it is better for us to be this way coz we can talk anything under the sun! i don't know if that is only her reason for dumping me! but i told myself that i'm not going to give up and continue what i feel for her until the time comes that she'll realize that i'm the one worthy for her love! is my decision right?! if the same situation happened to you, please tell me what have you done and what is the outcome!? i need help!
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17 Apr 07
Well, i could assume you're right with your decision. In some instance you still have to take into account the respect of your being best of friends. I know each of you avoids hurting each other. And sometimes you can't teach your heart to fall in love to someone whom you dont.., but it is an advantage if you know him/her so well. Friends who turned into lovers has never been a big deal because it happened. You only need to understand each situations you may face. You'll have to be flexible in every twists and turns. Take into account that when you love someone, its more on pleasing her rather than yourself. You feel sad when she feels the same. And your love dont necessarily need a payback...., coz you're giving it absolutely free. So, do things that could make her happy and stay good to her. I'm sure, its near for her to love you too. God bless!
17 Apr 07
for now, i'm doing the best that i can do to make her happy! i also make the best out of the time we spend with each other! just now, she called me up and told me that she was very happy the she met me! i couldn't find the words to say how happy i am at this moment! she also told me that i need to drop by at her house for me to meet her mother! i'm surprised of the things that is happening right now! but i'm not expecting anything!
17 Apr 07
Your decision is absolutely right. I believe good relationship starts at friendship level. I and my fiance started as friends. As time went on, he developed a matured feeling for me. When he told me of it, l was not expecting it, becos l only saw him as a friend, but as fate would have it, l realised that he is the best man friend l have ever had, so l accepted his proposal for marriage. Becuase of the way we started, we have maintained the level of communication we started with, he knows much about me likewise me. I believe you are on the right track, but get your real intension deep into her, l mean let her know that the relationship has moved from friendship level, tell her that you dont want her for only as a friend but as a lover. However, take it gently so that she won't think you want to take advantage of her. Tip, play on her emotions ... she will be the one running after you, lol. Good Luck!